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Getting The Math Right | Ted Harro | TEDxUWMadison


[Applause]

[Applause] well it’s good to be with you on a

well it’s good to be with you on a

well it’s good to be with you on a Saturday in my Saturday clothes see

Saturday in my Saturday clothes see

Saturday in my Saturday clothes see monday to friday i we have two pits to

monday to friday i we have two pits to

monday to friday i we have two pits to click that’s the runway but either

click that’s the runway but either

click that’s the runway but either friday i’m a business consultant and I

friday i’m a business consultant and I

friday i’m a business consultant and I where the consulting uniform you know

where the consulting uniform you know

where the consulting uniform you know button-down shirt nice pair of pants the

button-down shirt nice pair of pants the

button-down shirt nice pair of pants the occasional sport coat but everything

occasional sport coat but everything

occasional sport coat but everything changes on Saturdays when my family and

changes on Saturdays when my family and

changes on Saturdays when my family and I rent a commercial kitchen and crank

I rent a commercial kitchen and crank

I rent a commercial kitchen and crank out about 100 loaves of bread for a

out about 100 loaves of bread for a

out about 100 loaves of bread for a growing number of customers in our town

growing number of customers in our town

growing number of customers in our town our customers pre-order their bread

our customers pre-order their bread

our customers pre-order their bread online and pick it up on Saturday

online and pick it up on Saturday

online and pick it up on Saturday afternoons in a gourmet shop in town

afternoons in a gourmet shop in town

afternoons in a gourmet shop in town that kind of makes our business model a

that kind of makes our business model a

that kind of makes our business model a mash-up of your local farmers market CSA

mash-up of your local farmers market CSA

mash-up of your local farmers market CSA where you pick up whatever is fresh from

where you pick up whatever is fresh from

where you pick up whatever is fresh from the farmer’s field each week and Dell

the farmer’s field each week and Dell

the farmer’s field each week and Dell computers where you can you know

computers where you can you know

computers where you can you know pre-order and pre-configure a computer

pre-order and pre-configure a computer

pre-order and pre-configure a computer online in our business I go better

online in our business I go better

online in our business I go better handle the bread dude my wife Gretchen

handle the bread dude my wife Gretchen

handle the bread dude my wife Gretchen she’s the boss obvious reasons our

she’s the boss obvious reasons our

she’s the boss obvious reasons our customers we call them bread fans and

customers we call them bread fans and

customers we call them bread fans and those loaves of bread their bundles of

those loaves of bread their bundles of

those loaves of bread their bundles of joy now nobody gets rich making

joy now nobody gets rich making

joy now nobody gets rich making handcrafted bread in suburban America

handcrafted bread in suburban America

handcrafted bread in suburban America that business model is just flat-out

that business model is just flat-out

that business model is just flat-out busted you’ll never have to worry about

busted you’ll never have to worry about

busted you’ll never have to worry about seeing me on a stage with Bill Gates and

seeing me on a stage with Bill Gates and

seeing me on a stage with Bill Gates and Warren Buffett trying to figure out how

Warren Buffett trying to figure out how

Warren Buffett trying to figure out how I’m gonna give away my billions that’s

I’m gonna give away my billions that’s

I’m gonna give away my billions that’s never gonna happen but I love bread

never gonna happen but I love bread

never gonna happen but I love bread don’t ask me why you like yoga or

don’t ask me why you like yoga or

don’t ask me why you like yoga or football or golf I like bread and

football or golf I like bread and

football or golf I like bread and there’s no one in our town no bakery in

there’s no one in our town no bakery in

there’s no one in our town no bakery in our town who makes the kind of

our town who makes the kind of

our town who makes the kind of handcrafted bread that exposes

handcrafted bread that exposes

handcrafted bread that exposes supermarket bread for the plastic wraps

supermarket bread for the plastic wraps

supermarket bread for the plastic wraps lie that it is

lie that it is

lie that it is so about five years ago I started

so about five years ago I started

so about five years ago I started thinking we got to do this bread thing

thinking we got to do this bread thing

thinking we got to do this bread thing both thinking that love bread and

both thinking that love bread and

both thinking that love bread and because I want to try an entrepreneurial

because I want to try an entrepreneurial

because I want to try an entrepreneurial venture that was both for-profit and for

venture that was both for-profit and for

venture that was both for-profit and for the common good so after wiping up a

the common good so after wiping up a

the common good so after wiping up a website on a weekend we launched our

website on a weekend we launched our

website on a weekend we launched our doughy adventure and we’ve met hundreds

doughy adventure and we’ve met hundreds

doughy adventure and we’ve met hundreds of people in our community that we would

of people in our community that we would

of people in our community that we would never have met without a bread

never have met without a bread

never have met without a bread connection we also get to participate in

connection we also get to participate in

connection we also get to participate in weekly moments of joy that we just love

weekly moments of joy that we just love

weekly moments of joy that we just love like when you shaped bread there is

like when you shaped bread there is

like when you shaped bread there is nothing like a big beautiful hunk of

nothing like a big beautiful hunk of

nothing like a big beautiful hunk of dough and the end the kind of

dough and the end the kind of

dough and the end the kind of choreography of a crew turning 120

choreography of a crew turning 120

choreography of a crew turning 120 pounds of dough into a hundred pounds of

pounds of dough into a hundred pounds of

pounds of dough into a hundred pounds of deliciousness we love shaping bread and

deliciousness we love shaping bread and

deliciousness we love shaping bread and then what happens next see we our

then what happens next see we our

then what happens next see we our customers pre-ordered their bread so we

customers pre-ordered their bread so we

customers pre-ordered their bread so we know before any ingredients hit the bowl

know before any ingredients hit the bowl

know before any ingredients hit the bowl about how many lows we have to make each

about how many lows we have to make each

about how many lows we have to make each week but it’s hard to make exactly a

week but it’s hard to make exactly a

week but it’s hard to make exactly a hundred and two loaves of bread so we

hundred and two loaves of bread so we

hundred and two loaves of bread so we usually throw a couple extra in the bowl

usually throw a couple extra in the bowl

usually throw a couple extra in the bowl when we’re done baking we know exactly

when we’re done baking we know exactly

when we’re done baking we know exactly how many extra we have that’s when we

how many extra we have that’s when we

how many extra we have that’s when we put a message on our Facebook and

put a message on our Facebook and

put a message on our Facebook and Twitter feeds inviting bread fans to

Twitter feeds inviting bread fans to

Twitter feeds inviting bread fans to text my phone if they want to pick up an

text my phone if they want to pick up an

text my phone if they want to pick up an extra and then we wait and then this

extra and then we wait and then this

extra and then we wait and then this happens within minutes usually we sell

happens within minutes usually we sell

happens within minutes usually we sell out but my favorite weekly moment of joy

out but my favorite weekly moment of joy

out but my favorite weekly moment of joy is when our bread fans come and pick up

is when our bread fans come and pick up

is when our bread fans come and pick up their bread in the gourmet shop they

their bread in the gourmet shop they

their bread in the gourmet shop they amble back through the store and we

amble back through the store and we

amble back through the store and we chitchat and they taste the samples of

chitchat and they taste the samples of

chitchat and they taste the samples of the day’s bread and then I give them a

the day’s bread and then I give them a

the day’s bread and then I give them a fresh loaf of bread and a paper bag

fresh loaf of bread and a paper bag

fresh loaf of bread and a paper bag peeking out through with little plastic

peeking out through with little plastic

peeking out through with little plastic window it’s still warm usually and many

window it’s still warm usually and many

window it’s still warm usually and many bread fans do something instinctive they

bread fans do something instinctive they

bread fans do something instinctive they create a little bread it’s why we call

create a little bread it’s why we call

create a little bread it’s why we call them bundles of joy you see we’ve

them bundles of joy you see we’ve

them bundles of joy you see we’ve discovered something which is that while

discovered something which is that while

discovered something which is that while we started this whole thing for the joy

we started this whole thing for the joy

we started this whole thing for the joy of bread our joy has been multiplied by

of bread our joy has been multiplied by

of bread our joy has been multiplied by bringing joy to others and that recipe

bringing joy to others and that recipe

bringing joy to others and that recipe is intoxicating now I’ve always dreamed

is intoxicating now I’ve always dreamed

is intoxicating now I’ve always dreamed about scaling up noonday bread in my

about scaling up noonday bread in my

about scaling up noonday bread in my mind’s eye I can see hundreds of

mind’s eye I can see hundreds of

mind’s eye I can see hundreds of read fans up and down the commuter train

read fans up and down the commuter train

read fans up and down the commuter train line in Chicago picking up their bread

line in Chicago picking up their bread

line in Chicago picking up their bread at kiosks bringing bundles of joy home I

at kiosks bringing bundles of joy home I

at kiosks bringing bundles of joy home I imagine employing hard working people

imagine employing hard working people

imagine employing hard working people who need a leg up and helping them with

who need a leg up and helping them with

who need a leg up and helping them with opportunities for ownership and nobility

opportunities for ownership and nobility

opportunities for ownership and nobility and the work I imagine going to schools

and the work I imagine going to schools

and the work I imagine going to schools and working with students from the age

and working with students from the age

and working with students from the age of 10 through high school helping them

of 10 through high school helping them

of 10 through high school helping them see how everything you learned in school

see how everything you learned in school

see how everything you learned in school math science social studies art

math science social studies art

math science social studies art everything is useful when you want to

everything is useful when you want to

everything is useful when you want to start an entrepreneurial business I

start an entrepreneurial business I

start an entrepreneurial business I imagine from our profits funding micro

imagine from our profits funding micro

imagine from our profits funding micro loans for food entrepreneurs in the

loans for food entrepreneurs in the

loans for food entrepreneurs in the developing world so they can lift their

developing world so they can lift their

developing world so they can lift their families from poverty in my mind’s eye I

families from poverty in my mind’s eye I

families from poverty in my mind’s eye I can see the headlines in the business

can see the headlines in the business

can see the headlines in the business sections of the Chicago papers

sections of the Chicago papers

sections of the Chicago papers describing us as the toms shoes of bread

describing us as the toms shoes of bread

describing us as the toms shoes of bread back when Tom shoots were super cool and

back when Tom shoots were super cool and

back when Tom shoots were super cool and we would be masters of the altruistic

we would be masters of the altruistic

we would be masters of the altruistic world five years later though by Monday

world five years later though by Monday

world five years later though by Monday fire life I’m still not baking bread and

fire life I’m still not baking bread and

fire life I’m still not baking bread and my wife Gretchen she’s not running she’s

my wife Gretchen she’s not running she’s

my wife Gretchen she’s not running she’s not running a preparation she’s a

not running a preparation she’s a

not running a preparation she’s a marriage therapist if we loved red so

marriage therapist if we loved red so

marriage therapist if we loved red so much why don’t we do it full-time the

much why don’t we do it full-time the

much why don’t we do it full-time the answer that turns out lies in the math

answer that turns out lies in the math

answer that turns out lies in the math although maybe not the way you think see

although maybe not the way you think see

although maybe not the way you think see growing up I always thought I I knew

growing up I always thought I I knew

growing up I always thought I I knew because that was kind of taught

because that was kind of taught

because that was kind of taught subliminally what it takes to be happy

subliminally what it takes to be happy

subliminally what it takes to be happy kind of a recipe or if you’re a fancy

kind of a recipe or if you’re a fancy

kind of a recipe or if you’re a fancy shmancy baker a formula that tells you

shmancy baker a formula that tells you

shmancy baker a formula that tells you how things should work it starts when

how things should work it starts when

how things should work it starts when you’re in high school and you pull down

you’re in high school and you pull down

you’re in high school and you pull down great grades maybe add a few extra

great grades maybe add a few extra

great grades maybe add a few extra curricular activities to round out your

curricular activities to round out your

curricular activities to round out your resume and then you apply to the best

resume and then you apply to the best

resume and then you apply to the best school you can and you go to that school

school you can and you go to that school

school you can and you go to that school hopefully a school with a badger as a

hopefully a school with a badger as a

hopefully a school with a badger as a mascot and you in create yourself to

mascot and you in create yourself to

mascot and you in create yourself to some professors they write great

some professors they write great

some professors they write great recommendations to grad school or to a

recommendations to grad school or to a

recommendations to grad school or to a hot company where you go start your

hot company where you go start your

hot company where you go start your career and you climb and you climb and

career and you climb and you climb and

career and you climb and you climb and you climb them pretty soon pretty soon

you climb them pretty soon pretty soon

you climb them pretty soon pretty soon you can move out of that apartment to

you can move out of that apartment to

you can move out of that apartment to the starter house to the mid-size house

the starter house to the mid-size house

the starter house to the mid-size house to the house where your taxes are more

to the house where your taxes are more

to the house where your taxes are more than your parents would ever have

than your parents would ever have

than your parents would ever have thought about paying

thought about paying

thought about paying mortgage and if you’re really lucky

mortgage and if you’re really lucky

mortgage and if you’re really lucky you’re in the c-suite you’ve hit the top

you’re in the c-suite you’ve hit the top

you’re in the c-suite you’ve hit the top you’re a partner in a firm you’re a

you’re a partner in a firm you’re a

you’re a partner in a firm you’re a tenured professor to prestigious

tenured professor to prestigious

tenured professor to prestigious university you’ve arrived this is the

university you’ve arrived this is the

university you’ve arrived this is the formula I think I was taught and

formula I think I was taught and

formula I think I was taught and summarized it looks something like this

summarized it looks something like this

summarized it looks something like this success plus being a decent person is

success plus being a decent person is

success plus being a decent person is happiness in my consulting work i

happiness in my consulting work i

happiness in my consulting work i actually have spent the last 25 years a

actually have spent the last 25 years a

actually have spent the last 25 years a lot of time in these rooms the c-suite

lot of time in these rooms the c-suite

lot of time in these rooms the c-suite and i’ve been struck i mean i actually

and i’ve been struck i mean i actually

and i’ve been struck i mean i actually thought that decent people at the top

thought that decent people at the top

thought that decent people at the top especially decent people from happy

especially decent people from happy

especially decent people from happy places like Wisconsin or Minnesota would

places like Wisconsin or Minnesota would

places like Wisconsin or Minnesota would not just be happy they’d be deliriously

not just be happy they’d be deliriously

not just be happy they’d be deliriously happy I thought the c-suite would be

happy I thought the c-suite would be

happy I thought the c-suite would be exploding with contentment and joy as it

exploding with contentment and joy as it

exploding with contentment and joy as it turns out not so much I’ve been struck

turns out not so much I’ve been struck

turns out not so much I’ve been struck over 25 years by how many of my clients

over 25 years by how many of my clients

over 25 years by how many of my clients are not just unhappy they’re profoundly

are not just unhappy they’re profoundly

are not just unhappy they’re profoundly unhappy and you kind of think to

unhappy and you kind of think to

unhappy and you kind of think to yourself how can that be when you get to

yourself how can that be when you get to

yourself how can that be when you get to that spot you know you’re smart you’re

that spot you know you’re smart you’re

that spot you know you’re smart you’re successful you should be happy but in

successful you should be happy but in

successful you should be happy but in reality for many of them the misery has

reality for many of them the misery has

reality for many of them the misery has just begun and they look around they go

just begun and they look around they go

just begun and they look around they go huh yeah I’m smart and my colleagues are

huh yeah I’m smart and my colleagues are

huh yeah I’m smart and my colleagues are smart but even the smart ones maybe

smart but even the smart ones maybe

smart but even the smart ones maybe especially the smart ones are not just

especially the smart ones are not just

especially the smart ones are not just unhappy but they’re scared and fear

unhappy but they’re scared and fear

unhappy but they’re scared and fear makes smart people stupid and worse yet

makes smart people stupid and worse yet

makes smart people stupid and worse yet fear makes decent people mean so you

fear makes decent people mean so you

fear makes decent people mean so you think well what could possibly make

think well what could possibly make

think well what could possibly make somebody who ascends to a very high

somebody who ascends to a very high

somebody who ascends to a very high altitude be at all nervous maybe that

altitude be at all nervous maybe that

altitude be at all nervous maybe that you know what this means this means we

you know what this means this means we

you know what this means this means we have to think differently about what it

have to think differently about what it

have to think differently about what it is to be happy at work we have to

is to be happy at work we have to

is to be happy at work we have to reexamine the math

reexamine the math

reexamine the math I was lucky I grew up in the shadow of

I was lucky I grew up in the shadow of

I was lucky I grew up in the shadow of somebody who knew older and deeper math

somebody who knew older and deeper math

somebody who knew older and deeper math my dad taught me a different way of

my dad taught me a different way of

my dad taught me a different way of looking at things he got the math right

looking at things he got the math right

looking at things he got the math right my dad’s story is actually an American

my dad’s story is actually an American

my dad’s story is actually an American Dream story he was born into abject

Dream story he was born into abject

Dream story he was born into abject poverty the youngest of 10 children in

poverty the youngest of 10 children in

poverty the youngest of 10 children in the 1930s he’s in a snappy set of

the 1930s he’s in a snappy set of

the 1930s he’s in a snappy set of clothes here but I just need to tell you

clothes here but I just need to tell you

clothes here but I just need to tell you that I know for a fact he figured out at

that I know for a fact he figured out at

that I know for a fact he figured out at the age of six that his family was too

the age of six that his family was too

the age of six that his family was too poor to buy him clothes and he probably

poor to buy him clothes and he probably

poor to buy him clothes and he probably bought this set of clothes and every set

bought this set of clothes and every set

bought this set of clothes and every set of clothes the rest of his life he went

of clothes the rest of his life he went

of clothes the rest of his life he went on to become a doctor and could have

on to become a doctor and could have

on to become a doctor and could have done many visible things with his

done many visible things with his

done many visible things with his medical career but instead he decided to

medical career but instead he decided to

medical career but instead he decided to serve the unseen and marginalized so he

serve the unseen and marginalized so he

serve the unseen and marginalized so he started clinics for rural African

started clinics for rural African

started clinics for rural African Americans in the segregated south in the

Americans in the segregated south in the

Americans in the segregated south in the 1950s he ran medical facilities for the

1950s he ran medical facilities for the

1950s he ran medical facilities for the mentally handicapped in New York and

mentally handicapped in New York and

mentally handicapped in New York and toward the end of his career he started

toward the end of his career he started

toward the end of his career he started a teaching practice for young doctors

a teaching practice for young doctors

a teaching practice for young doctors who were trying to learn to work with

who were trying to learn to work with

who were trying to learn to work with the elderly and other unseen population

the elderly and other unseen population

the elderly and other unseen population in our world in nursing homes none of

in our world in nursing homes none of

in our world in nursing homes none of these populations were sexy or wealthy

these populations were sexy or wealthy

these populations were sexy or wealthy or powerful which is exactly why my dad

or powerful which is exactly why my dad

or powerful which is exactly why my dad wanted to serve him he knew there was a

wanted to serve him he knew there was a

wanted to serve him he knew there was a different way of getting the good life

different way of getting the good life

different way of getting the good life he got the math right he never exactly

he got the math right he never exactly

he got the math right he never exactly said it this way but this is the

said it this way but this is the

said it this way but this is the equation I think my dad lived by being

equation I think my dad lived by being

equation I think my dad lived by being who you’re created to be plus

who you’re created to be plus

who you’re created to be plus contentment equals success now notice to

contentment equals success now notice to

contentment equals success now notice to make that math work we flipped a few

make that math work we flipped a few

make that math work we flipped a few things around from the one that I

things around from the one that I

things around from the one that I learned as a kid we’ve said that instead

learned as a kid we’ve said that instead

learned as a kid we’ve said that instead of success being a necessary ingredient

of success being a necessary ingredient

of success being a necessary ingredient for a happy good life it’s something

for a happy good life it’s something

for a happy good life it’s something that’s much more organic and comes from

that’s much more organic and comes from

that’s much more organic and comes from something that’s true to who we are who

something that’s true to who we are who

something that’s true to who we are who were created to be and I don’t know

were created to be and I don’t know

were created to be and I don’t know about you you may be may have been

about you you may be may have been

about you you may be may have been created to be the next Lady Gaga or the

created to be the next Lady Gaga or the

created to be the next Lady Gaga or the next Mark Zuckerberg of Barack Obama I

next Mark Zuckerberg of Barack Obama I

next Mark Zuckerberg of Barack Obama I kind of doubt it I wasn’t

kind of doubt it I wasn’t

kind of doubt it I wasn’t but whoever you’re created to be the

but whoever you’re created to be the

but whoever you’re created to be the third part of this equation is you’re

third part of this equation is you’re

third part of this equation is you’re going to have to work super hard to be

going to have to work super hard to be

going to have to work super hard to be contented because our world has made

contented because our world has made

contented because our world has made discontent a virtue most of us spend our

discontent a virtue most of us spend our

discontent a virtue most of us spend our lives even when we have a super good

lives even when we have a super good

lives even when we have a super good which most of us in this room really do

which most of us in this room really do

which most of us in this room really do looking over our shoulders and thinking

looking over our shoulders and thinking

looking over our shoulders and thinking could it be even better not my dad my

could it be even better not my dad my

could it be even better not my dad my dad knew that the key to contentment was

dad knew that the key to contentment was

dad knew that the key to contentment was living who he was who he was created to

living who he was who he was created to

living who he was who he was created to be and I was probably taught that and

be and I was probably taught that and

be and I was probably taught that and subliminally picked that up as a kid but

subliminally picked that up as a kid but

subliminally picked that up as a kid but it’s easy for me to forget and I needed

it’s easy for me to forget and I needed

it’s easy for me to forget and I needed to be reminded of things easily lost

to be reminded of things easily lost

to be reminded of things easily lost things easily forgotten maybe you do too

things easily forgotten maybe you do too

things easily forgotten maybe you do too which makes me I want to ask you are you

which makes me I want to ask you are you

which makes me I want to ask you are you getting the math right now this brings

getting the math right now this brings

getting the math right now this brings you back to bread if you know me well

you back to bread if you know me well

you back to bread if you know me well enough you’ll find out that everything

enough you’ll find out that everything

enough you’ll find out that everything bings ring comes back to bread if you

bings ring comes back to bread if you

bings ring comes back to bread if you hang around long enough about a year ago

hang around long enough about a year ago

hang around long enough about a year ago Gretchen and I thought maybe we should

Gretchen and I thought maybe we should

Gretchen and I thought maybe we should think about scaling this thing up let’s

think about scaling this thing up let’s

think about scaling this thing up let’s go big with the bread thing so we ran

go big with the bread thing so we ran

go big with the bread thing so we ran the numbers the way you should run the

the numbers the way you should run the

the numbers the way you should run the numbers and of course there was a usual

numbers and of course there was a usual

numbers and of course there was a usual panic of ovens and mixers and staff and

panic of ovens and mixers and staff and

panic of ovens and mixers and staff and how much money that costs but there were

how much money that costs but there were

how much money that costs but there were some uncomfortable truths that we had to

some uncomfortable truths that we had to

some uncomfortable truths that we had to face that went beyond just financial

face that went beyond just financial

face that went beyond just financial numbers they went to deeper math you see

numbers they went to deeper math you see

numbers they went to deeper math you see we have two sons 19 and 15 which means

we have two sons 19 and 15 which means

we have two sons 19 and 15 which means that our tuition in our family unit our

that our tuition in our family unit our

that our tuition in our family unit our tuition life is going to look something

tuition life is going to look something

tuition life is going to look something like this over the next seven years just

like this over the next seven years just

like this over the next seven years just say it’s going to be ugly what’s the

say it’s going to be ugly what’s the

say it’s going to be ugly what’s the final number who the heck knows but it’s

final number who the heck knows but it’s

final number who the heck knows but it’s going to be ugly and we realized that

going to be ugly and we realized that

going to be ugly and we realized that yes we could quit our bread venture and

yes we could quit our bread venture and

yes we could quit our bread venture and pour ourselves full-time into mean quit

pour ourselves full-time into mean quit

pour ourselves full-time into mean quit our normal jobs and pull ourselves

our normal jobs and pull ourselves

our normal jobs and pull ourselves full-time into the bread venture and

full-time into the bread venture and

full-time into the bread venture and tell our kids work it out but we were

tell our kids work it out but we were

tell our kids work it out but we were parents long before we were in the bread

parents long before we were in the bread

parents long before we were in the bread and we want to help launch our kids so

and we want to help launch our kids so

and we want to help launch our kids so we realized one of us at least was going

we realized one of us at least was going

we realized one of us at least was going to have to stay doing our normal

to have to stay doing our normal

to have to stay doing our normal rear to help fund tuition level income

rear to help fund tuition level income

rear to help fund tuition level income now here’s some simple math as important

now here’s some simple math as important

now here’s some simple math as important and meaningful as Gretchen’s therapy

and meaningful as Gretchen’s therapy

and meaningful as Gretchen’s therapy work is it takes a lot of unhappy

work is it takes a lot of unhappy

work is it takes a lot of unhappy couples at $125 an hour to fund tuition

couples at $125 an hour to fund tuition

couples at $125 an hour to fund tuition level income whereas in my consulting

level income whereas in my consulting

level income whereas in my consulting work I can do that with a reasonable

work I can do that with a reasonable

work I can do that with a reasonable amount of effort in time so we started

amount of effort in time so we started

amount of effort in time so we started thinking to make this happen we’re going

thinking to make this happen we’re going

thinking to make this happen we’re going to have to redirect most if not all of

to have to redirect most if not all of

to have to redirect most if not all of Gretchen’s time from therapy into

Gretchen’s time from therapy into

Gretchen’s time from therapy into running a retail bread operation now she

running a retail bread operation now she

running a retail bread operation now she likes bread but I’m not sure it’s her

likes bread but I’m not sure it’s her

likes bread but I’m not sure it’s her life calling so we had one of those

life calling so we had one of those

life calling so we had one of those moments of irony where we thought this

moments of irony where we thought this

moments of irony where we thought this venture that originally was all about

venture that originally was all about

venture that originally was all about helping us get the math right could go

helping us get the math right could go

helping us get the math right could go horribly wrong in the attempt to make

horribly wrong in the attempt to make

horribly wrong in the attempt to make our business successful through some

our business successful through some

our business successful through some arbitrary financial measure and more the

arbitrary financial measure and more the

arbitrary financial measure and more the point to feed my ego we might nudge

point to feed my ego we might nudge

point to feed my ego we might nudge Gretchen away from the work that she’s

Gretchen away from the work that she’s

Gretchen away from the work that she’s called to do that she was created dude

called to do that she was created dude

called to do that she was created dude towards something she she couldn’t do

towards something she she couldn’t do

towards something she she couldn’t do but she wasn’t created to be once we saw

but she wasn’t created to be once we saw

but she wasn’t created to be once we saw that and we knew the math the decision

that and we knew the math the decision

that and we knew the math the decision was simple we would keep our bread

was simple we would keep our bread

was simple we would keep our bread operation our quirky little venture as a

operation our quirky little venture as a

operation our quirky little venture as a weekend only business with modest

weekend only business with modest

weekend only business with modest profits and plenty of joy now I say it

profits and plenty of joy now I say it

profits and plenty of joy now I say it was simple don’t think for a second it

was simple don’t think for a second it

was simple don’t think for a second it with easy equation one dreams drop die

with easy equation one dreams drop die

with easy equation one dreams drop die hard especially when they’re built on

hard especially when they’re built on

hard especially when they’re built on lies that we sometimes accept this truth

lies that we sometimes accept this truth

lies that we sometimes accept this truth let me give you a couple one of my

let me give you a couple one of my

let me give you a couple one of my favorites is do what you love and the

favorites is do what you love and the

favorites is do what you love and the money will follow wish if it were true

money will follow wish if it were true

money will follow wish if it were true would mean I could make a full time

would mean I could make a full time

would mean I could make a full time living eating pizza and watching soccer

living eating pizza and watching soccer

living eating pizza and watching soccer which if any of you want to offer me the

which if any of you want to offer me the

which if any of you want to offer me the job I’m in right now second lie that I

job I’m in right now second lie that I

job I’m in right now second lie that I love is that work shouldn’t just be work

love is that work shouldn’t just be work

love is that work shouldn’t just be work or a career it should be here every

or a career it should be here every

or a career it should be here every thing like some kind of soul me like

thing like some kind of soul me like

thing like some kind of soul me like work is your lover in a romance novel

work is your lover in a romance novel

work is your lover in a romance novel about work sometimes work is just work

about work sometimes work is just work

about work sometimes work is just work well when I alluded to earlier which is

well when I alluded to earlier which is

well when I alluded to earlier which is that contentment is for losers that

that contentment is for losers that

that contentment is for losers that somehow if you’re contented you’re a

somehow if you’re contented you’re a

somehow if you’re contented you’re a slacker you just don’t have the guts to

slacker you just don’t have the guts to

slacker you just don’t have the guts to do something big don’t get me wrong

do something big don’t get me wrong

do something big don’t get me wrong there are plenty of things that we

there are plenty of things that we

there are plenty of things that we should be discontented about in our

should be discontented about in our

should be discontented about in our world but whether or not I get the

world but whether or not I get the

world but whether or not I get the corner office or I have the most

corner office or I have the most

corner office or I have the most followers on Twitter shouldn’t be one of

followers on Twitter shouldn’t be one of

followers on Twitter shouldn’t be one of them so maybe maybe you’re facing a

them so maybe maybe you’re facing a

them so maybe maybe you’re facing a turning point right now and I just want

turning point right now and I just want

turning point right now and I just want to ask you a question as you think about

to ask you a question as you think about

to ask you a question as you think about the turning point you might be facing

the turning point you might be facing

the turning point you might be facing are you really looking at what you’re

are you really looking at what you’re

are you really looking at what you’re created to be or as you make your

created to be or as you make your

created to be or as you make your decision about that turning point are

decision about that turning point are

decision about that turning point are you chasing some arbitrary level of

you chasing some arbitrary level of

you chasing some arbitrary level of success are you making a decision based

success are you making a decision based

success are you making a decision based on where you can contribute from your

on where you can contribute from your

on where you can contribute from your best of the world or is it really that

best of the world or is it really that

best of the world or is it really that you’re just not very happy with your

you’re just not very happy with your

you’re just not very happy with your current circumstances or maybe you’re

current circumstances or maybe you’re

current circumstances or maybe you’re just cruising along in everyday life

just cruising along in everyday life

just cruising along in everyday life that’s a great time to Liddy Quay shun

that’s a great time to Liddy Quay shun

that’s a great time to Liddy Quay shun to an equation to person holds her life

to an equation to person holds her life

to an equation to person holds her life very carefully she knows she knows that

very carefully she knows she knows that

very carefully she knows she knows that even if her impact isn’t very visible

even if her impact isn’t very visible

even if her impact isn’t very visible that like yeast in a batch of dough that

that like yeast in a batch of dough that

that like yeast in a batch of dough that transforms it from a sticky messy goo

transforms it from a sticky messy goo

transforms it from a sticky messy goo into a beautiful creation that crazed

into a beautiful creation that crazed

into a beautiful creation that crazed benefit for everyone and everything

benefit for everyone and everything

benefit for everyone and everything around it her life can be that way too

around it her life can be that way too

around it her life can be that way too she knows in the words of a wise author

she knows in the words of a wise author

she knows in the words of a wise author how to put her good where it will do the

how to put her good where it will do the

how to put her good where it will do the most good so treating the lies that you

most good so treating the lies that you

most good so treating the lies that you have to get more be more be more visible

have to get more be more be more visible

have to get more be more be more visible to have a good life abandon your envy of

to have a good life abandon your envy of

to have a good life abandon your envy of your so-called friend and their recent

your so-called friend and their recent

your so-called friend and their recent award or their upcoming trip to the

award or their upcoming trip to the

award or their upcoming trip to the Caribbean trade all that in for the

Caribbean trade all that in for the

Caribbean trade all that in for the truth that wealth and fame and power are

truth that wealth and fame and power are

truth that wealth and fame and power are nice but are not ultimately what defines

nice but are not ultimately what defines

nice but are not ultimately what defines a good life do it now especially if

a good life do it now especially if

a good life do it now especially if you’re not facing a crossroads because

you’re not facing a crossroads because

you’re not facing a crossroads because when that happens how well you’ve

when that happens how well you’ve

when that happens how well you’ve learned the math how deeply it’s in your

learned the math how deeply it’s in your

learned the math how deeply it’s in your person will make up a difference and in

person will make up a difference and in

person will make up a difference and in the end it’s all about getting the math

the end it’s all about getting the math

the end it’s all about getting the math right thank you

right thank you

right thank you [Applause]

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