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Overcoming Boundaries | Julia Headley | TEDxHeidelberg


boundary our restriction being cut off

boundary our restriction being cut off a barrier limitations on myspace

a barrier limitations on myspace

a barrier limitations on myspace a boundary prevents me from exploring

a boundary prevents me from exploring

a boundary prevents me from exploring and going beyond

and going beyond

and going beyond a boundary can be forms of oppression

a boundary can be forms of oppression

a boundary can be forms of oppression this barrier can kill my dreams and not

this barrier can kill my dreams and not

this barrier can kill my dreams and not empower me to achieve

when I hear the word boundary I think of

when I hear the word boundary I think of overcoming what seems to be impossible

overcoming what seems to be impossible

overcoming what seems to be impossible von grace to me speak of limits borders

von grace to me speak of limits borders

von grace to me speak of limits borders partitions a lying mark or a dividing

partitions a lying mark or a dividing

partitions a lying mark or a dividing line between

when I think of the word boundary I

when I think of the word boundary I think of the desire to repel and to be

think of the desire to repel and to be

think of the desire to repel and to be outside confined space

to me a boundary is just another hurdle

to me a boundary is just another hurdle to get over boundaries feel like limits

to get over boundaries feel like limits

to get over boundaries feel like limits and I like to be limitless when I think

and I like to be limitless when I think

and I like to be limitless when I think a boundary I think of protection I think

a boundary I think of protection I think

a boundary I think of protection I think of safety

of safety

of safety I think of comfort

I think functional

I think functional I think it comes into mind when I think

I think it comes into mind when I think

I think it comes into mind when I think about relationships and interaction

about relationships and interaction

about relationships and interaction when I hear the word boundaries i think

when I hear the word boundaries i think

when I hear the word boundaries i think separation

I think about being limited do not dare

I think about being limited do not dare to pass

to pass

to pass when I think of the word boundary I

when I think of the word boundary I

when I think of the word boundary I think of reaching a limit a point to

think of reaching a limit a point to

think of reaching a limit a point to where you can’t move past that

where you can’t move past that

where you can’t move past that or even a variable or perimeter that

or even a variable or perimeter that

or even a variable or perimeter that stops someone or something from getting

stops someone or something from getting

stops someone or something from getting past the point of where it is at that

past the point of where it is at that

past the point of where it is at that moment

moment

moment and I think about boundaries i could go

and I think about boundaries i could go

and I think about boundaries i could go enclosures I begin to feel trapped and

enclosures I begin to feel trapped and

enclosures I begin to feel trapped and absolutely need to escape

for me or boundary is something that

for me or boundary is something that keeps me packed in

so when I think of a word boundary to me

so when I think of a word boundary to me is like alone that you shouldn’t cross

is like alone that you shouldn’t cross

is like alone that you shouldn’t cross or everything is cool up until this

or everything is cool up until this

or everything is cool up until this point I’m coming closer

when I hear the word boundary I think of

when I hear the word boundary I think of limits division segregation

limits division segregation

limits division segregation it also makes me think of self control

it also makes me think of self control

it also makes me think of self control and safety

when I hear the word boundary I think of

when I hear the word boundary I think of things to be set and things to be broken

things to be set and things to be broken

things to be set and things to be broken set in terms of drawing lines of respect

set in terms of drawing lines of respect

set in terms of drawing lines of respect and owning your space and asserting

and owning your space and asserting

and owning your space and asserting yourself

yourself

yourself and boundaries to be broken when things

and boundaries to be broken when things

and boundaries to be broken when things hurt or harm you to create social change

if there is ever any kind of boundaries

if there is ever any kind of boundaries that I have to overcome maybe

that I have to overcome maybe

that I have to overcome maybe a task or something that I’m just simply

a task or something that I’m just simply

a task or something that I’m just simply afraid of confronting before I would

afraid of confronting before I would

afraid of confronting before I would usually just not do anything and hope

usually just not do anything and hope

usually just not do anything and hope that it would pass and take that really

that it would pass and take that really

that it would pass and take that really passive role but now of course I’ve

passive role but now of course I’ve

passive role but now of course I’ve learned that this actually doesn’t do me

learned that this actually doesn’t do me

learned that this actually doesn’t do me any good and it doesn’t bring me any

any good and it doesn’t bring me any

any good and it doesn’t bring me any positive results so for me the most

positive results so for me the most

positive results so for me the most important thing to do is to be brave and

important thing to do is to be brave and

important thing to do is to be brave and to take that first step and just do

when I hear you were boundary I think of

when I hear you were boundary I think of an imaginary line that shouldn’t be

an imaginary line that shouldn’t be

an imaginary line that shouldn’t be crossed

crossed

crossed these lengths create walls and they kind

these lengths create walls and they kind

these lengths create walls and they kind of list around our life or thought all

of list around our life or thought all

of list around our life or thought all right existent and boundaries carry such

right existent and boundaries carry such

right existent and boundaries carry such a heavy weight you can create to create

a heavy weight you can create to create

a heavy weight you can create to create a simple lines across the space of

a simple lines across the space of

a simple lines across the space of comfort or boxes to traffic and very

comfort or boxes to traffic and very

comfort or boxes to traffic and very often those boundaries which we create

often those boundaries which we create

often those boundaries which we create to protect ourselves is the only

to protect ourselves is the only

to protect ourselves is the only information that others have to create

information that others have to create

information that others have to create their perception of us

their perception of us

when I think of laundry I think all

when I think of laundry I think all personal space you know the budget we

personal space you know the budget we

personal space you know the budget we said far says an in-home people dream

said far says an in-home people dream

said far says an in-home people dream also that they know there’s my star

also that they know there’s my star

also that they know there’s my star privacy to respect our opinion is our

privacy to respect our opinion is our

privacy to respect our opinion is our right to make our own decision to our

right to make our own decision to our

right to make our own decision to our own life

own life

own life when I hear the word boundary I think of

when I hear the word boundary I think of

when I hear the word boundary I think of an imaginary lane a line that tells

an imaginary lane a line that tells

an imaginary lane a line that tells others what I am comfortable with and

others what I am comfortable with and

others what I am comfortable with and what makes me uncomfortable Elaine that

what makes me uncomfortable Elaine that

what makes me uncomfortable Elaine that tells them hope for it to go what is

tells them hope for it to go what is

tells them hope for it to go what is enough rain to stop

enough rain to stop

enough rain to stop a bond retails that it was all clear

a bond retails that it was all clear

a bond retails that it was all clear with me and what Islam

with me and what Islam

with me and what Islam when I think of the word boundary I

when I think of the word boundary I

when I think of the word boundary I think about emotional boundaries and

think about emotional boundaries and

think about emotional boundaries and setting emotional boundaries doesn’t

setting emotional boundaries doesn’t

setting emotional boundaries doesn’t mean keeping everybody at arm’s length

mean keeping everybody at arm’s length

mean keeping everybody at arm’s length and not letting people get too close and

and not letting people get too close and

and not letting people get too close and not being vulnerable with people and we

not being vulnerable with people and we

not being vulnerable with people and we knowing that you matter enough to

knowing that you matter enough to

knowing that you matter enough to protect yourself

boundaries

boundaries I had to learn to set personal

I had to learn to set personal

I had to learn to set personal boundaries to wave of people with smile

boundaries to wave of people with smile

boundaries to wave of people with smile who steps into my zone with dirty feet

who steps into my zone with dirty feet

who steps into my zone with dirty feet a great chance for me to investigate

a great chance for me to investigate

a great chance for me to investigate into what I want from the world and what

into what I want from the world and what

into what I want from the world and what I want to offer to the world

I want to offer to the world

I want to offer to the world when I think of the word boundary

when I think of the word boundary

when I think of the word boundary it makes me feel safe and it makes me

it makes me feel safe and it makes me

it makes me feel safe and it makes me feel warm and predicted

it also makes me feel strong

it also makes me feel strong because being a person who’s had to

because being a person who’s had to

because being a person who’s had to struggle with their boundaries being

struggle with their boundaries being

struggle with their boundaries being crossed by other people being able to

crossed by other people being able to

crossed by other people being able to set boundaries and have them respected

set boundaries and have them respected

set boundaries and have them respected it’s something that really makes me feel

it’s something that really makes me feel

it’s something that really makes me feel like a strong person

like a strong person

like a strong person I don’t think of it as a bad thing I

I don’t think of it as a bad thing I

I don’t think of it as a bad thing I think of it as a really important thing

think of it as a really important thing

think of it as a really important thing to help me

to help me

to help me be Who I am

be Who I am

be Who I am show other people how they can be

show other people how they can be

show other people how they can be themselves

themselves

themselves so for me boundary is a good word

so for me boundary is a good word

so for me boundary is a good word help forward and to kind word

help forward and to kind word

help forward and to kind word it’s an important word

bounding the word boundary to me means

bounding the word boundary to me means protection it’s the first thing you

protection it’s the first thing you

protection it’s the first thing you think of when I think of that word

when I with my son I think of we set up

when I with my son I think of we set up boundaries for him too

boundaries for him too

boundaries for him too protect himself and things that he might

protect himself and things that he might

protect himself and things that he might not be able to handle or might not be

not be able to handle or might not be

not be able to handle or might not be able to foresee your understand that his

able to foresee your understand that his

able to foresee your understand that his age what he can and can’t be able to do

age what he can and can’t be able to do

age what he can and can’t be able to do because of potential harm or danger that

because of potential harm or danger that

because of potential harm or danger that could come about

could come about

could come about when I think of the bird boundary

when I think of the bird boundary

when I think of the bird boundary because I am probably because i am a

because I am probably because i am a

because I am probably because i am a copy and national who loves the game of

copy and national who loves the game of

copy and national who loves the game of cricket okay is the first thing that

cricket okay is the first thing that

cricket okay is the first thing that comes into my mind when I think of that

comes into my mind when I think of that

comes into my mind when I think of that we’re wondering I’ll let it think of

we’re wondering I’ll let it think of

we’re wondering I’ll let it think of boundary I think that in order you can

boundary I think that in order you can

boundary I think that in order you can score by stroking the ball I keeping it

score by stroking the ball I keeping it

score by stroking the ball I keeping it within the boundary but if you want a

within the boundary but if you want a

within the boundary but if you want a big score the ball has to reach the

big score the ball has to reach the

big score the ball has to reach the boundary and if you want in maximum

boundary and if you want in maximum

boundary and if you want in maximum score you have to clear the boundary

score you have to clear the boundary

score you have to clear the boundary I’ve tried to live my life so that the

I’ve tried to live my life so that the

I’ve tried to live my life so that the order to maximize my living in order to

order to maximize my living in order to

order to maximize my living in order to get most out of whatever I am doing I

get most out of whatever I am doing I

get most out of whatever I am doing I try to

try to

try to at least reached him under me more often

at least reached him under me more often

at least reached him under me more often than not contracted clear the boundary

than not contracted clear the boundary

than not contracted clear the boundary break the barrier because that’s where

break the barrier because that’s where

break the barrier because that’s where the maximum score as we can maximums

the maximum score as we can maximums

the maximum score as we can maximums parades

parades

parades often times what we define as boundaries

often times what we define as boundaries

often times what we define as boundaries are simply hurdles to be overcome or

are simply hurdles to be overcome or

are simply hurdles to be overcome or greater heights to be reached

greater heights to be reached

greater heights to be reached boundaries are manufactured in the mind

boundaries are manufactured in the mind

boundaries are manufactured in the mind and then molded into reality

and then molded into reality

and then molded into reality when I think foundry I think of

when I think foundry I think of

when I think foundry I think of resistance

resistance

resistance [Music]

they also can put some sort of clarity

they also can put some sort of clarity some sort of

some sort of

some sort of Carson shield

an opportunity to renew

an opportunity to renew an opportunity to restore then I think

an opportunity to restore then I think

an opportunity to restore then I think boundary and I think it’s all pretty

boundary and I think it’s all pretty

boundary and I think it’s all pretty Falls

Falls

Falls I think it’s awesome sort of makeshift

I think it’s awesome sort of makeshift

I think it’s awesome sort of makeshift idea to separate

idea to separate

idea to separate to classified

to classified

to classified isolate

and all these have

and all these have number of different reasons where they

number of different reasons where they

number of different reasons where they might be useful but it may be harmful

they might be chosen for any good reason

they might be chosen for any good reason the mere mention of a boundary perhaps

the mere mention of a boundary perhaps

the mere mention of a boundary perhaps because of my line of work and general

because of my line of work and general

because of my line of work and general curiosities makes me feel immediately

curiosities makes me feel immediately

curiosities makes me feel immediately equal parts rebellious and

equal parts rebellious and

equal parts rebellious and entrepreneurial how can this boundary be

entrepreneurial how can this boundary be

entrepreneurial how can this boundary be overcome

the word boundary

the word boundary means respect

means respect

means respect it means respect for your community for

it means respect for your community for

it means respect for your community for your spouse for your siblings

your spouse for your siblings

your spouse for your siblings for your parents

for your parents

for your parents for your elders

individuals with different

individuals with different mindsets

people have different visions

people have different visions when hear the word boundary I think

when hear the word boundary I think

when hear the word boundary I think about who controls space around the

about who controls space around the

about who controls space around the boundary or IDK keepers or the ones with

boundary or IDK keepers or the ones with

boundary or IDK keepers or the ones with the Paula all these things are important

the Paula all these things are important

the Paula all these things are important live easy to think about or even try to

live easy to think about or even try to

live easy to think about or even try to theorize Goethe of a boundary across

theorize Goethe of a boundary across

theorize Goethe of a boundary across borders and I will form the isolation

borders and I will form the isolation

borders and I will form the isolation there audibly of course produce and

there audibly of course produce and

there audibly of course produce and knowledge is about the boundary are the

knowledge is about the boundary are the

knowledge is about the boundary are the same goes with polar

the word boundary to me is I think a

the word boundary to me is I think a very potent word in the midst of society

very potent word in the midst of society

very potent word in the midst of society where we all constantly feel like we

where we all constantly feel like we

where we all constantly feel like we have these walls stood up around us of

have these walls stood up around us of

have these walls stood up around us of what we need to be or what we should be

what we need to be or what we should be

what we need to be or what we should be in order to fit into society or to be

in order to fit into society or to be

in order to fit into society or to be defined as successful and all other

defined as successful and all other

defined as successful and all other words and that make us feel as though we

words and that make us feel as though we

words and that make us feel as though we need to be one with all those around us

need to be one with all those around us

need to be one with all those around us but at the same time I think a lot of

but at the same time I think a lot of

but at the same time I think a lot of the things that we put on ourselves are

the things that we put on ourselves are

the things that we put on ourselves are self-inflicted which we can absolutely

self-inflicted which we can absolutely

self-inflicted which we can absolutely relinquish control over

relinquish control over

relinquish control over boundaries are funny because as much as

boundaries are funny because as much as

boundaries are funny because as much as they protect they could sometimes block

they protect they could sometimes block

they protect they could sometimes block so we have to realize where we have to

so we have to realize where we have to

so we have to realize where we have to find I stretch our boundaries

find I stretch our boundaries

find I stretch our boundaries I keep are stretching them until we

I keep are stretching them until we

I keep are stretching them until we reach our dreams and our goals and our

reach our dreams and our goals and our

reach our dreams and our goals and our purposes a boundary on one side it

purposes a boundary on one side it

purposes a boundary on one side it divides co battement fragment fraction

divides co battement fragment fraction

divides co battement fragment fraction and splits on the other side it brings

and splits on the other side it brings

and splits on the other side it brings together unified blend and merge natural

together unified blend and merge natural

together unified blend and merge natural or breathed from broad and weapon its

or breathed from broad and weapon its

or breathed from broad and weapon its imprint on me the culture history but

imprint on me the culture history but

imprint on me the culture history but sometimes boundary can be blood and

sometimes boundary can be blood and

sometimes boundary can be blood and crumbly that’s what I like in the

crumbly that’s what I like in the

crumbly that’s what I like in the boundary it’s arrogance is often

boundary it’s arrogance is often

boundary it’s arrogance is often temporary and one day it breaks

temporary and one day it breaks

temporary and one day it breaks [Music]

[Music]

[Music] you

you

you [Music]

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