in 2013 I was the front of my TV
France newspaper February 20 o’clock he got there
report on the positive discipline the
positive discipline lands in France
positive discipline is an approach
educational that is based on
encouragement how to encourage his
child to make him grow
to win so he can win in
trust so that interests me because
that I seek to create the link between
children and parents
I go for it and with the pragmatism of
united states these are course courses
Education workshops in practice
a lot of interactive activities have
made Performing the playing
children where parents play
I took my husband away obviously because
that it’s also for our family and
then I’m here I feel good
and the first thing we are asked
like question a device when we
ends an activity what is it
that you feel
what’s going on inside
of you then the feeling is obviously
it is interior but it can also be
translate by attitudes and
postures
the first thing also we are told
after the first workshop the first of
to see that we are given is to observe
a child is rarely rarely takes
time and observe to observe his child
so I come out of there and workshop in
workshop I discover all these tools of
encouraging those tools that we
create links between
children and parents
and then I become a teacher
yes I am forming and becoming a trainer
in positive discipline then in my turn
I run workshops and at a
activity with a participant we speak
active listening
you know when we open up his
ears that we leave our phones
laptops in our pockets
condé says our whole body and any
our attention to the one who is in front
of them and seven participants tell me for
you look funny and that sounds
Looks like what you do
with horses yes because what I
did not say it’s that my first
dada is the game
my first passion is the horse
so obviously the horse I fell
in since I was very small
I’m three years old little boots
sizes 25 and I enter the world
horses
I enter the world of ponies all
first they are imposing animals
impressive they are beefy
I am very small but they are also
very sweet very hospitable
benevolent and I’m going to grow up to
next to them they will also welcome me
without their judgment they go motorized
to be me even flawed talkative
emotional fragile and he will become a
confident then I grow passionate me
continues I remain cavalier and
today I live an awakened dream
since I combine two passions the
transmission teaching and the horse
I run an equestrian center with my
husband and I welcome little ones
baby riders children of
parents of adults who want
to go into the relationship with this horse
what does he have to bring us
horse he has it to bring us all the
non-verbal communication
because yes to be in touch with
the other you have to communicate and the
first thing with the horse is
that he does not speak when you come back
in the meadow of horses we will return
in a stable
the first impression
the first thing you can note
it is this silence it is impressive
he’s not resting he’s inspiring so the
horse is an animal in nature
he is an herbivore he lives in a flock
to grow well he needs
social interaction
he’s going to need a leader that leader
will be there to protect him
give alerts
the horse will awaken all its senses
its sensitivity to the environment for
able to communicate and he will do
trust this leader who will
indicate a danger that will indicate to him
if you have to flee
because the only thing here very
to do well is to flee
he’s curious benevolent but if there is
danger he’ll run away so how does that
interested but we humans are
we are not herbivores we are not
not a prey we are
predators and that’s important because
only to weave a bond with the horse
it will be necessary to erase this attitude of
predators there is jean françois pinion
a horse trainer in show he has
several horses in freedom that says
that for a man with horses he
must be very calm is filled with love
filled with love the discipline
positive she invites us to this
firmness and benevolence because
that steadiness solis toward obedience
and strength and benevolence alone
slide towards permissiveness and this
horse will also invite us to find
the balance
strength is love firmness benevolence
and in the middle of that we’ll find some
calm because once again the horse
do not speak and it’s in silence
we will get the best
performances
so we’ll have to be strong for the
protect it will have to be filled
of love to erase our attitude of
predators with him then
today
I work in my equestrian center and
I welcome very riders
different and I have a mare that
I love this mare a lot
is called freya it’s a pretty blonde
she is not very tall but she has a
very assertive temperament she
amuses me a lot because she has
always in his head the idea of
return to her price she is very
assured she is the leading mare in the
flock and she tells herself about a shy
a little my rider when he goes to me
to brush I’ll maybe turned to
close and we will take another
and I observe when I confide it to
a horserider
I have several profiles the first one he goes
to try once he will go back and
gain in comfort and get in
security very discreetly it goes
stop the brush and chat with
others and he’s going to stop his job the
second will try with a lot of
softness
maybe too much sweetness without groen
convictions and whenever there I
fight me turn my head to
intimidating him he will step back one step him
also the third will raise his
voice he’ll take a big voice he’ll
maybe even hit the horse
to impose his strength but he misses
this dose of love these three people
I often come to see him saying
that my mare is nasty but I
did not ask nasty she is
simply mirror their balance
benevolent firmness and obviously
I also have beginners riders
confirmed who arrives near this
mare and who have a fairly balanced
just this firm and its
kindness and it’s going very well
next to her there is a lot of
great things in horses a
something that amuses me a lot is their
subtlety of body language
they can move their ears 180 °
finishes I’m never going to get you
no more but other things that are
extras and that’s real true
scan of our body from our mind
they will come and get your energy
they will come to get your emotions
your intentions fault determination and
then they will also scan
your body is what the body
corresponds to this attitude at this
mind his emotions that I come
to analyze the last thing I like
a lot it’s the horse it’s this effect
mirror is the reflection he offers us
of ourselves and this welcome without
judgment is a fair ground
wonderful
you have a gaming partner who you
offers your own reflection but that does not
do not judge me believe in our fathers
it’s hard to find but at the
horse
you have an exercise ground
extraordinary then there are full full
to understand precisely
how does the horse come to us these iran
information it via iran we these
news
in our head and in our body I
remember one time
I was hosting a 6th grade a
cohesion they spend a week in
our equestrian center
they come from paris as much tell you
that the horses isab about to
what does it look like because they have
read in their accounts
finally we gave them pictures but
the animal they do not know well they
see him as a 400 kg animal
very imposing who can bite and
to walk on their feet we are in the
career is not it getting stuck there
just walk by his horse the
first exercise these two markets of
stop and exercise that I them
request is played with a red fire
green this red fire market verb you
you stop globally around me
it moves
they have a lanyard and he walks next
of their horse
he stops but I still observe
some duos in trouble I have one
who looks at his horse and who runs
comes well if you had to go well and to
whenever the horse is going to make a
not he goes back I have another duo that in
difficulty because the horse has
found one blade of grass on the other
side of the fence and then there he
pulls with all his might and the rider
shot of pies also strives I’ll you
recalls that horse is 400 kg and that
actually 50 60
it’s complicated then that and all
others I ask them to put themselves in
circle around me and I ask them
where are you going where are you going and the
most answer me there you know where
they go to me no more and the horse does not
do not know there is a whisperer a cowboy
is called reindeer who says simply and
very humbly the horse is when
you know but he knows when you do not
do not know then I ask again to
my little riders to tell me where they
will go precisely with
sizes and raise their arms when they
when they feel that this is
accurate in their heads then one to one
they raise their arms to indicate
behind the orange pad behind the
bar and there is in front of me
near the yellow plo and the green light jordi
what is going on everyone
advance the horse came looking for this
information in our heads he came
scan our scanner determination
our emotion we affirmed
we know exactly what we want
do then we move and our
body our body comes to translate our
determination and our energy
interior is accessible to all
it’s the magic of horses kids
as adults emerge from the
grown up because you gain confidence
with this animal it is an animal that is
very imposing and we feel pretty powerful
when we get to do things to
pralines
so yes this horse is awesome there aa
power of body mind scanners it goes
you learn to regain confidence in
you and it is not uncommon to observe
in his sessions of the people
anxious to find calm
stressed people find
roles of attachment of people
angry to regain control of them
even a little selfish people
who develop empathy and those who
who are very assertive are also going
open up open their minds get back
in question then yes today this
horse offers you all its power
to develop non communication
verbal
it offers you its your reflection by effect
mirror it will come inflate your
puffed up trust your image of you
same and help you correct this
firm balance ethic benevolence
force so many love go to
many lectures read books
on the personal overtaking the
personal development trust in
see what I propose to you
experience the horse and licques
nice phrases on facebook if you
wish but come and put yourself in
action come experience the
horse and I wish you all
punctually or regularly
put a little horse in your life
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