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Rebuilding and Resiliency | Kevin Penny | TEDxDalhousieU


at the age of 15 my sister and I were

at the age of 15 my sister and I were going out to collect paper money on a

going out to collect paper money on a

going out to collect paper money on a bicycle built for two and you can

bicycle built for two and you can

bicycle built for two and you can imagine myself as a young fifteen year

imagine myself as a young fifteen year

imagine myself as a young fifteen year old and the pictures I was active I was

old and the pictures I was active I was

old and the pictures I was active I was healthy carefree looking forward to a

healthy carefree looking forward to a

healthy carefree looking forward to a future as possibly a phys ed teacher or

future as possibly a phys ed teacher or

future as possibly a phys ed teacher or a radio broadcaster I wasn’t sure but in

a radio broadcaster I wasn’t sure but in

a radio broadcaster I wasn’t sure but in a split second a very split second my

a split second a very split second my

a split second a very split second my life and the people’s life around me

life and the people’s life around me

life and the people’s life around me changed forever one evening in October

changed forever one evening in October

changed forever one evening in October when my sis as I said my sister and I

when my sis as I said my sister and I

when my sis as I said my sister and I were going on a bicycle built for two we

were going on a bicycle built for two we

were going on a bicycle built for two we were heading down the hill and

were heading down the hill and

were heading down the hill and unfortunately halfway down the hill we

unfortunately halfway down the hill we

unfortunately halfway down the hill we lost the brakes on their bike my bike

lost the brakes on their bike my bike

lost the brakes on their bike my bike and I was driving and fortunately I was

and I was driving and fortunately I was

and I was driving and fortunately I was able to swerve to miss from hitting a

able to swerve to miss from hitting a

able to swerve to miss from hitting a car but unfortunately that night my life

car but unfortunately that night my life

car but unfortunately that night my life would change forever as my bike went

would change forever as my bike went

would change forever as my bike went headfirst into the ditch and in an

headfirst into the ditch and in an

headfirst into the ditch and in an instant my neck was broken and I

instant my neck was broken and I

instant my neck was broken and I suffered a spinal cord injury all of a

suffered a spinal cord injury all of a

suffered a spinal cord injury all of a sudden my life would have changed

sudden my life would have changed

sudden my life would have changed forever changed her lever forever I had

forever changed her lever forever I had

forever changed her lever forever I had no movement in my arms or my legs I had

no movement in my arms or my legs I had

no movement in my arms or my legs I had no sensitivity below my chest just

no sensitivity below my chest just

no sensitivity below my chest just imagine what I could do to a 15 year old

imagine what I could do to a 15 year old

imagine what I could do to a 15 year old boy but I don’t want to talk about the

boy but I don’t want to talk about the

boy but I don’t want to talk about the bad things or the negative things today

bad things or the negative things today

bad things or the negative things today I want to talk about the positive things

I want to talk about the positive things

I want to talk about the positive things I mean you think being in a wheelchair

I mean you think being in a wheelchair

I mean you think being in a wheelchair or needing to use the wheelchair is all

or needing to use the wheelchair is all

or needing to use the wheelchair is all bad but it’s not all bad I mean I don’t

bad but it’s not all bad I mean I don’t

bad but it’s not all bad I mean I don’t have to wait in the lines at Disney

have to wait in the lines at Disney

have to wait in the lines at Disney World and I get great parking as you can

World and I get great parking as you can

World and I get great parking as you can imagine that at such a young age I had

imagine that at such a young age I had

imagine that at such a young age I had to come over overcome many barriers

to come over overcome many barriers

to come over overcome many barriers being paralyzed and having to change the

being paralyzed and having to change the

being paralyzed and having to change the way I do a lot of things within my life

my very first boat with really the

my very first boat with really the medical system was that the after I

medical system was that the after I

medical system was that the after I having my accident

having my accident

having my accident having to go through some of the

having to go through some of the

having to go through some of the challenges of the rehabilitation process

challenges of the rehabilitation process

challenges of the rehabilitation process with that type of diagnosis I had to

with that type of diagnosis I had to

with that type of diagnosis I had to learn many new things how to live my

learn many new things how to live my

learn many new things how to live my life differently I had to deal with

life differently I had to deal with

life differently I had to deal with learning how to use a wheelchair you

learning how to use a wheelchair you

learning how to use a wheelchair you learning how to use different technology

learning how to use different technology

learning how to use different technology like voice recognition software to allow

like voice recognition software to allow

like voice recognition software to allow me to be able to live a normal and

me to be able to live a normal and

me to be able to live a normal and independent life getting back into the

independent life getting back into the

independent life getting back into the community moving back home to where my

community moving back home to where my

community moving back home to where my family was probably my rock and my

family was probably my rock and my

family was probably my rock and my support so having that change in my life

support so having that change in my life

support so having that change in my life was a big big step for me luckily I was

was a big big step for me luckily I was

was a big big step for me luckily I was able to have very good support around me

able to have very good support around me

able to have very good support around me and I was able to as dektor Dexter’s had

and I was able to as dektor Dexter’s had

and I was able to as dektor Dexter’s had persevere and move forward I was very

persevere and move forward I was very

persevere and move forward I was very lucky my parents and my family were very

lucky my parents and my family were very

lucky my parents and my family were very advocates for me well here in Halifax my

advocates for me well here in Halifax my

advocates for me well here in Halifax my mom advocating me for to be able to go

mom advocating me for to be able to go

mom advocating me for to be able to go to Universal and had a successful three

to Universal and had a successful three

to Universal and had a successful three years there and was able to figure out

years there and was able to figure out

years there and was able to figure out who I was and where I wanted to go the

who I was and where I wanted to go the

who I was and where I wanted to go the next part of my adventure took me to st.

next part of my adventure took me to st.

next part of my adventure took me to st. Mary’s University where I decided to

Mary’s University where I decided to

Mary’s University where I decided to study at post-secondary now I know I’m

study at post-secondary now I know I’m

study at post-secondary now I know I’m here at Dowell and all that stuff but I

here at Dowell and all that stuff but I

here at Dowell and all that stuff but I mean at that time st. Mary’s one was one

mean at that time st. Mary’s one was one

mean at that time st. Mary’s one was one of the only educational institutes that

of the only educational institutes that

of the only educational institutes that really could support someone with the

really could support someone with the

really could support someone with the requirements I need the accessibility

requirements I need the accessibility

requirements I need the accessibility was top in the province there was a

was top in the province there was a

was top in the province there was a support center there for persons with

support center there for persons with

support center there for persons with disabilities that could provide me the

disabilities that could provide me the

disabilities that could provide me the supports I need it to be successful so I

supports I need it to be successful so I

supports I need it to be successful so I ventured into a Bachelor of Commerce

ventured into a Bachelor of Commerce

ventured into a Bachelor of Commerce degree and majored in small business

degree and majored in small business

degree and majored in small business management and after those five years of

management and after those five years of

management and after those five years of studying I became I was able to graduate

studying I became I was able to graduate

studying I became I was able to graduate and really at that time to sign him what

and really at that time to sign him what

and really at that time to sign him what I wanted to do with the rest of my life

I wanted to do with the rest of my life

I wanted to do with the rest of my life I mean I had a business degree in small

I mean I had a business degree in small

I mean I had a business degree in small business management I wanted to own my

business management I wanted to own my

business management I wanted to own my own business I think if there’s any

own business I think if there’s any

own business I think if there’s any bankers in the

bankers in the

bankers in the they’re a 23 year old guy just finishing

they’re a 23 year old guy just finishing

they’re a 23 year old guy just finishing University asking for a million dollars

University asking for a million dollars

University asking for a million dollars to start a business didn’t go too well

to start a business didn’t go too well

to start a business didn’t go too well but I didn’t let that let me down I

but I didn’t let that let me down I

but I didn’t let that let me down I really pushed forward and tried to stay

really pushed forward and tried to stay

really pushed forward and tried to stay positive and luckily I was very

positive and luckily I was very

positive and luckily I was very fortunate in providing and someone

fortunate in providing and someone

fortunate in providing and someone provided me an opportunity the same

provided me an opportunity the same

provided me an opportunity the same organization that provided me the

organization that provided me the

organization that provided me the supports and disabilities or supports

supports and disabilities or supports

supports and disabilities or supports and services that I needed to be

and services that I needed to be

and services that I needed to be successful at post-secondary that

successful at post-secondary that

successful at post-secondary that government agency gave me a chance they

government agency gave me a chance they

government agency gave me a chance they hired me as a summer program coordinator

hired me as a summer program coordinator

hired me as a summer program coordinator for a wage subsidy for persons with

for a wage subsidy for persons with

for a wage subsidy for persons with disabilities and the ability to get that

disabilities and the ability to get that

disabilities and the ability to get that experience and move forward has been

experience and move forward has been

experience and move forward has been just unbelievable and to this day I

just unbelievable and to this day I

just unbelievable and to this day I still Mable after thirteen years later

still Mable after thirteen years later

still Mable after thirteen years later to say that I’m still working there and

to say that I’m still working there and

to say that I’m still working there and still helping with supports for students

still helping with supports for students

still helping with supports for students with disabilities who decide to study

with disabilities who decide to study

with disabilities who decide to study with post-secondary and currently we

with post-secondary and currently we

with post-secondary and currently we have almost 2,000 students with various

have almost 2,000 students with various

have almost 2,000 students with various disabilities all across the province and

disabilities all across the province and

disabilities all across the province and across this country out there learning

across this country out there learning

across this country out there learning the skills so that they can be

the skills so that they can be

the skills so that they can be employable and it allows me every day I

employable and it allows me every day I

employable and it allows me every day I feel positive and feel confident that I

feel positive and feel confident that I

feel positive and feel confident that I have a say or a help from my own

have a say or a help from my own

have a say or a help from my own personal experiences in the my

personal experiences in the my

personal experiences in the my employment experience to help them be

employment experience to help them be

employment experience to help them be successful now all of these things that

successful now all of these things that

successful now all of these things that I’ve been talking about my have been

I’ve been talking about my have been

I’ve been talking about my have been really stepping stones to where I am

really stepping stones to where I am

really stepping stones to where I am today because of the opportunities and

today because of the opportunities and

today because of the opportunities and the supports and services that were in

the supports and services that were in

the supports and services that were in place for myself has opened doors in so

place for myself has opened doors in so

place for myself has opened doors in so many ways where I could never imagined I

many ways where I could never imagined I

many ways where I could never imagined I kind of often joke with my friends and

kind of often joke with my friends and

kind of often joke with my friends and family that I feel reborn that this is

family that I feel reborn that this is

family that I feel reborn that this is was meant to be for me and I can’t

was meant to be for me and I can’t

was meant to be for me and I can’t imagine going any other way the

imagine going any other way the

imagine going any other way the opportunities of traveling have been

opportunities of traveling have been

opportunities of traveling have been amazing for me I’ve traveled all over

amazing for me I’ve traveled all over

amazing for me I’ve traveled all over the world and get to experience so many

the world and get to experience so many

the world and get to experience so many different places and be able to meet so

different places and be able to meet so

different places and be able to meet so many different people who I can let them

many different people who I can let them

many different people who I can let them know that persons with disabilities can

know that persons with disabilities can

know that persons with disabilities can still do things we can still move

still do things we can still move

still do things we can still move forward and travel and do the fun things

forward and travel and do the fun things

forward and travel and do the fun things that we want to do if the opportunities

that we want to do if the opportunities

that we want to do if the opportunities are put in place

are put in place

are put in place in 2006 I ventured my experience in the

in 2006 I ventured my experience in the

in 2006 I ventured my experience in the world of sailing you can see in the

world of sailing you can see in the

world of sailing you can see in the picture there that was my first event I

picture there that was my first event I

picture there that was my first event I had never sailed before in my entire

had never sailed before in my entire

had never sailed before in my entire life

life

life but a friend of mine Paul tinguely who’s

but a friend of mine Paul tinguely who’s

but a friend of mine Paul tinguely who’s a gold medalist sailor said you should

a gold medalist sailor said you should

a gold medalist sailor said you should go to Vancouver and try this you’ll

go to Vancouver and try this you’ll

go to Vancouver and try this you’ll enjoy it so I took the fleep of faith

enjoy it so I took the fleep of faith

enjoy it so I took the fleep of faith and trusted in other people and honestly

and trusted in other people and honestly

and trusted in other people and honestly to God and it changed my life to this

to God and it changed my life to this

to God and it changed my life to this day I’m now the president of se label

day I’m now the president of se label

day I’m now the president of se label Association a nonprofit organization

Association a nonprofit organization

Association a nonprofit organization that provides supports and services for

that provides supports and services for

that provides supports and services for persons with disabilities who want to be

persons with disabilities who want to be

persons with disabilities who want to be able to go sailing who wants that

able to go sailing who wants that

able to go sailing who wants that opportunity that support and that has

opportunity that support and that has

opportunity that support and that has been a whole nother chapter in my life

been a whole nother chapter in my life

been a whole nother chapter in my life and you can see not only did I enjoy the

and you can see not only did I enjoy the

and you can see not only did I enjoy the recreation part of saying I got

recreation part of saying I got

recreation part of saying I got competitive really competitive to the

competitive really competitive to the

competitive really competitive to the point that I bought my own sailboat now

point that I bought my own sailboat now

point that I bought my own sailboat now you could say it was a midlife crisis

you could say it was a midlife crisis

you could say it was a midlife crisis but I purchased my own sailboat you can

but I purchased my own sailboat you can

but I purchased my own sailboat you can see in some of the pictures there I’ve

see in some of the pictures there I’ve

see in some of the pictures there I’ve had the vent the opportunity to sail

had the vent the opportunity to sail

had the vent the opportunity to sail across Canada round to compete on a

across Canada round to compete on a

across Canada round to compete on a national level and those opportunities

national level and those opportunities

national level and those opportunities of meeting people and doing those things

of meeting people and doing those things

of meeting people and doing those things have opened vast possibilities for me

have opened vast possibilities for me

have opened vast possibilities for me and I really think the futures further

and I really think the futures further

and I really think the futures further on I’ve gone skiing downhill skiing I

on I’ve gone skiing downhill skiing I

on I’ve gone skiing downhill skiing I mean any type adventures that I could

mean any type adventures that I could

mean any type adventures that I could possibly do or properties that are out

possibly do or properties that are out

possibly do or properties that are out there I’m willing to give them a try to

there I’m willing to give them a try to

there I’m willing to give them a try to see to make sure that I can live life to

see to make sure that I can live life to

see to make sure that I can live life to my fullest now a lot of the things that

my fullest now a lot of the things that

my fullest now a lot of the things that I talk about in my talk really wouldn’t

I talk about in my talk really wouldn’t

I talk about in my talk really wouldn’t be possible without accessibility and I

be possible without accessibility and I

be possible without accessibility and I really want to focus on accessibility

really want to focus on accessibility

really want to focus on accessibility and inclusion in my talk and how

and inclusion in my talk and how

and inclusion in my talk and how important it is not just for persons

important it is not just for persons

important it is not just for persons with disabilities but for the community

with disabilities but for the community

with disabilities but for the community in the world at whole it opens

in the world at whole it opens

in the world at whole it opens opportunities I talked about my

opportunities I talked about my

opportunities I talked about my educational opportunities that it opened

educational opportunities that it opened

educational opportunities that it opened up my employment opportunities and some

up my employment opportunities and some

up my employment opportunities and some of the recreation and leisure events

of the recreation and leisure events

of the recreation and leisure events that I’ve been able to do those

that I’ve been able to do those

that I’ve been able to do those opportunities wouldn’t have been

opportunities wouldn’t have been

opportunities wouldn’t have been possible unless I had an accessible

possible unless I had an accessible

possible unless I had an accessible environment to do those in

environment to do those in

environment to do those in I was able to get on an airplane unless

I was able to get on an airplane unless

I was able to get on an airplane unless I was able to get on a ride at

I was able to get on a ride at

I was able to get on a ride at Disneyworld get on a go-cart any of

Disneyworld get on a go-cart any of

Disneyworld get on a go-cart any of those things that are possible and are

those things that are possible and are

those things that are possible and are available to me have just to vastly

available to me have just to vastly

available to me have just to vastly improve the experiences it with me we

improve the experiences it with me we

improve the experiences it with me we talk about universal design and maybe

talk about universal design and maybe

talk about universal design and maybe even though I heard the term but

even though I heard the term but

even though I heard the term but universal design is making a world

universal design is making a world

universal design is making a world that’s universal that works for

that’s universal that works for

that’s universal that works for everybody with all abilities or all or

everybody with all abilities or all or

everybody with all abilities or all or whatever requirements one might need and

whatever requirements one might need and

whatever requirements one might need and when we help everyone we make our world

when we help everyone we make our world

when we help everyone we make our world more accessible to everyone I feel it’s

more accessible to everyone I feel it’s

more accessible to everyone I feel it’s a win-win and I can be a personal

a win-win and I can be a personal

a win-win and I can be a personal experience and show that through

experience and show that through

experience and show that through personal experience and perseverance

personal experience and perseverance

personal experience and perseverance that it can help it improves the quality

that it can help it improves the quality

that it can help it improves the quality of life in so many different ways

of life in so many different ways

of life in so many different ways improves my self-confidence my

improves my self-confidence my

improves my self-confidence my self-esteem my health is better I’m more

self-esteem my health is better I’m more

self-esteem my health is better I’m more healthy I’m able to be active and out in

healthy I’m able to be active and out in

healthy I’m able to be active and out in the community but most important I think

the community but most important I think

the community but most important I think and what it really feels for me is it

and what it really feels for me is it

and what it really feels for me is it allows me to live independently and I

allows me to live independently and I

allows me to live independently and I can’t stress how much that independence

can’t stress how much that independence

can’t stress how much that independence means to an individual you’ll never know

means to an individual you’ll never know

means to an individual you’ll never know until it’s taken away from you how much

until it’s taken away from you how much

until it’s taken away from you how much someone independence means to their life

someone independence means to their life

someone independence means to their life and because I have all these things in

and because I have all these things in

and because I have all these things in place I can live on my own independently

place I can live on my own independently

place I can live on my own independently I can travel independently to the places

I can travel independently to the places

I can travel independently to the places that I want to travel I can meet the

that I want to travel I can meet the

that I want to travel I can meet the people I want to meet I can do the

people I want to meet I can do the

people I want to meet I can do the things I want to do and those

things I want to do and those

things I want to do and those experiences have just fulfilled my life

experiences have just fulfilled my life

experiences have just fulfilled my life so much you can see in the sailing

so much you can see in the sailing

so much you can see in the sailing pictures there I mean I’ve been able to

pictures there I mean I’ve been able to

pictures there I mean I’ve been able to do some amazing things in that sailboat

do some amazing things in that sailboat

do some amazing things in that sailboat and I always tell people that for me

and I always tell people that for me

and I always tell people that for me being in that sailboat controlling where

being in that sailboat controlling where

being in that sailboat controlling where I’m sailing that sailboat is really the

I’m sailing that sailboat is really the

I’m sailing that sailboat is really the only other time other than in my

only other time other than in my

only other time other than in my wheelchair that I really have control of

wheelchair that I really have control of

wheelchair that I really have control of where I’m going or where I want to move

where I’m going or where I want to move

where I’m going or where I want to move to and that feeling is empowering and I

to and that feeling is empowering and I

to and that feeling is empowering and I think if if you were able to experience

think if if you were able to experience

think if if you were able to experience what that’s like you can really

what that’s like you can really

what that’s like you can really understand what I mean

understand what I mean

understand what I mean but I want to finish off talking about

but I want to finish off talking about

but I want to finish off talking about some of the importance of accessibility

some of the importance of accessibility

some of the importance of accessibility the biggest thing that we have to

the biggest thing that we have to

the biggest thing that we have to overcome I think and

overcome I think and

overcome I think and I say this wholeheartedly is changing

I say this wholeheartedly is changing

I say this wholeheartedly is changing attitudes I think that’s what TED Talks

attitudes I think that’s what TED Talks

attitudes I think that’s what TED Talks are all about it’s an attitudinal change

are all about it’s an attitudinal change

are all about it’s an attitudinal change in our environment in our communities

in our environment in our communities

in our environment in our communities that has to happen for all this to be

that has to happen for all this to be

that has to happen for all this to be put in place

put in place

put in place yeah it’s helped me but there’s many

yeah it’s helped me but there’s many

yeah it’s helped me but there’s many individuals out there that need that

individuals out there that need that

individuals out there that need that help need that push need that support

help need that push need that support

help need that push need that support and once we start changing attitudes and

and once we start changing attitudes and

and once we start changing attitudes and people’s perceptions on how people do

people’s perceptions on how people do

people’s perceptions on how people do things differently our communities our

things differently our communities our

things differently our communities our towns our cities our world will be a

towns our cities our world will be a

towns our cities our world will be a better place for everybody and that’s

better place for everybody and that’s

better place for everybody and that’s really what I want to continue push

really what I want to continue push

really what I want to continue push forward to and change that knowledge

forward to and change that knowledge

forward to and change that knowledge that this world can be accessible to

that this world can be accessible to

that this world can be accessible to everyone if we all put our collective

everyone if we all put our collective

everyone if we all put our collective thoughts and ideas together to make it

thoughts and ideas together to make it

thoughts and ideas together to make it happen so thank you very much for

happen so thank you very much for

happen so thank you very much for listening to

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