my name is Larry Nanak I was born in Istanbul Turkey and I was raised there I
Istanbul Turkey and I was raised there I
Istanbul Turkey and I was raised there I was eight years old when one night my
was eight years old when one night my
was eight years old when one night my parents and I visited a friend of my
parents and I visited a friend of my
parents and I visited a friend of my mother’s
mother’s
mother’s she lived in a large city flat in an old
she lived in a large city flat in an old
she lived in a large city flat in an old part of Istanbul imagine a neighborhood
part of Istanbul imagine a neighborhood
part of Istanbul imagine a neighborhood where apartments grew on top of one
where apartments grew on top of one
where apartments grew on top of one another and they raced for the sunlight
another and they raced for the sunlight
another and they raced for the sunlight she lived with her husband and two sons
she lived with her husband and two sons
she lived with her husband and two sons one around my age and one quite a few
one around my age and one quite a few
one around my age and one quite a few years older my parents and I spent the
years older my parents and I spent the
years older my parents and I spent the long evening in their living room we ate
long evening in their living room we ate
long evening in their living room we ate we talked I can’t remember any of the
we talked I can’t remember any of the
we talked I can’t remember any of the conversations we had but there’s a
conversations we had but there’s a
conversations we had but there’s a moment there’s an image I vividly
moment there’s an image I vividly
moment there’s an image I vividly remember from that evening
remember from that evening
remember from that evening I was sitting on the living room floor
I was sitting on the living room floor
I was sitting on the living room floor and I was looking at these large windows
and I was looking at these large windows
and I was looking at these large windows surrounding the living room each one of
surrounding the living room each one of
surrounding the living room each one of them extended from floor to ceiling and
them extended from floor to ceiling and
them extended from floor to ceiling and each one of them were tightly shut with
each one of them were tightly shut with
each one of them were tightly shut with curtains thick curtains curtains that
curtains thick curtains curtains that
curtains thick curtains curtains that were once white but now are stained
were once white but now are stained
were once white but now are stained yellowed charred from cigarette smoke
yellowed charred from cigarette smoke
yellowed charred from cigarette smoke they had smoked so much indoors that
they had smoked so much indoors that
they had smoked so much indoors that even their walls were stained I remember
even their walls were stained I remember
even their walls were stained I remember a heavy heaviness a sadness coming from
a heavy heaviness a sadness coming from
a heavy heaviness a sadness coming from dripping from their curtains as i sat
dripping from their curtains as i sat
dripping from their curtains as i sat there a few years later my mom’s friend
there a few years later my mom’s friend
there a few years later my mom’s friend died of lung cancer at a very young age
died of lung cancer at a very young age
died of lung cancer at a very young age at her funeral I learned that neither
at her funeral I learned that neither
at her funeral I learned that neither her husband nor her sons knew that she
her husband nor her sons knew that she
her husband nor her sons knew that she had cancer at her funeral I learned that
had cancer at her funeral I learned that
had cancer at her funeral I learned that neither her husband nor her sons knew
neither her husband nor her sons knew
neither her husband nor her sons knew that she had cancer she used to go to
that she had cancer she used to go to
that she had cancer she used to go to chemotherapy and she would tell
chemotherapy and she would tell
chemotherapy and she would tell everybody she was going on business
everybody she was going on business
everybody she was going on business trips in
trips in
trips in imagine this woman now imagine her
imagine this woman now imagine her
imagine this woman now imagine her loneliness
loneliness
loneliness she couldn’t even be alive with her
she couldn’t even be alive with her
she couldn’t even be alive with her closest family so at a funeral I thought
closest family so at a funeral I thought
closest family so at a funeral I thought back at that heaviness that sadness
back at that heaviness that sadness
back at that heaviness that sadness dripping from the curtains as I wondered
dripping from the curtains as I wondered
dripping from the curtains as I wondered how could it be how could it be that we
how could it be how could it be that we
how could it be how could it be that we live in the same house with people we
live in the same house with people we
live in the same house with people we share meals who even share the same bed
share meals who even share the same bed
share meals who even share the same bed but we might not see them dying inside
but we might not see them dying inside
but we might not see them dying inside my dad used to say that at our family
my dad used to say that at our family
my dad used to say that at our family we’ll look into each other’s eyes if we
we’ll look into each other’s eyes if we
we’ll look into each other’s eyes if we sees darkness we reach in we put light
sees darkness we reach in we put light
sees darkness we reach in we put light in there if we see scars we make them
in there if we see scars we make them
in there if we see scars we make them bleed so that they can heal at our
bleed so that they can heal at our
bleed so that they can heal at our family we dig deep into our
family we dig deep into our
family we dig deep into our relationships so that they mean
relationships so that they mean
relationships so that they mean something so that we mean something how
something so that we mean something how
something so that we mean something how can we get there we can get there by
can we get there we can get there by
can we get there we can get there by simply changing our questions let’s
simply changing our questions let’s
simply changing our questions let’s think about it there’s a question we
think about it there’s a question we
think about it there’s a question we asked approximately hundred thousand
asked approximately hundred thousand
asked approximately hundred thousand times in our lifetime that question is
times in our lifetime that question is
times in our lifetime that question is how are you doing what happens when we
how are you doing what happens when we
how are you doing what happens when we ask that question I actually went out on
ask that question I actually went out on
ask that question I actually went out on the street right in Charlottesville
the street right in Charlottesville
the street right in Charlottesville right in front of this camera and I
right in front of this camera and I
right in front of this camera and I asked that question to passers-by and
asked that question to passers-by and
asked that question to passers-by and here’s what they said I’m doing pretty
here’s what they said I’m doing pretty
here’s what they said I’m doing pretty well I’m doing fine okay good are you
well I’m doing fine okay good are you
well I’m doing fine okay good are you I’m doing great today I’m doing fine
I’m doing great today I’m doing fine
I’m doing great today I’m doing fine doing fine yeah no nice very good I’m
doing fine yeah no nice very good I’m
doing fine yeah no nice very good I’m very well
very well
very well great hi how are you one-word answers to
great hi how are you one-word answers to
great hi how are you one-word answers to a question that we asked hundred
a question that we asked hundred
a question that we asked hundred thousand times and we hear these answers
thousand times and we hear these answers
thousand times and we hear these answers hundred thousand times are you ok with
hundred thousand times are you ok with
hundred thousand times are you ok with that
that
that perhaps it’s not surprising because this
perhaps it’s not surprising because this
perhaps it’s not surprising because this is just another way to say I see your
is just another way to say I see your
is just another way to say I see your physical presence but I don’t have time
physical presence but I don’t have time
physical presence but I don’t have time for you right now there’s a question I
for you right now there’s a question I
for you right now there’s a question I like to ask instead and that question is
like to ask instead and that question is
like to ask instead and that question is Calvin de Navarre that’s Turkish for
Calvin de Navarre that’s Turkish for
Calvin de Navarre that’s Turkish for what is in your heart you actually went
what is in your heart you actually went
what is in your heart you actually went on the street and I asked people the
on the street and I asked people the
on the street and I asked people the same question and here’s what happened
much better
much better oh oh that’s a good question and these
oh oh that’s a good question and these
oh oh that’s a good question and these are the very reactions that we miss when
are the very reactions that we miss when
are the very reactions that we miss when we keep asking how are you doing
we keep asking how are you doing
we keep asking how are you doing here’s what we catch when we ask what is
here’s what we catch when we ask what is
here’s what we catch when we ask what is in your heart I just arrived back from
in your heart I just arrived back from
in your heart I just arrived back from picking up spending time with my
picking up spending time with my
picking up spending time with my daughter and she just had her second
daughter and she just had her second
daughter and she just had her second baby and so I’m full of love and joy
baby and so I’m full of love and joy
baby and so I’m full of love and joy kindness love was just thinking we were
kindness love was just thinking we were
kindness love was just thinking we were just thinking about our grandchildren
just thinking about our grandchildren
just thinking about our grandchildren and going to Tennessee to visit them for
and going to Tennessee to visit them for
and going to Tennessee to visit them for Thanksgiving actually I’m thinking about
Thanksgiving actually I’m thinking about
Thanksgiving actually I’m thinking about getting a job so I’ve been trying to
getting a job so I’ve been trying to
getting a job so I’ve been trying to decide if that’s the right decision for
decide if that’s the right decision for
decide if that’s the right decision for my family so I’ve been thinking about
my family so I’ve been thinking about
my family so I’ve been thinking about that a lot
that a lot
that a lot gratitude for my children and men
gratitude for my children and men
gratitude for my children and men grunting missing my family my heart
grunting missing my family my heart
grunting missing my family my heart knowing though they’re by to be truthful
knowing though they’re by to be truthful
knowing though they’re by to be truthful and loved hello and had a good heart and
and loved hello and had a good heart and
and loved hello and had a good heart and a good mind and being the good law the
a good mind and being the good law the
a good mind and being the good law the joy is in my heart my husband just had a
joy is in my heart my husband just had a
joy is in my heart my husband just had a good visit at the hospital god it’s
good visit at the hospital god it’s
good visit at the hospital god it’s awesome and he is good and I just feel
awesome and he is good and I just feel
awesome and he is good and I just feel with Thanksgiving anxiety supposedly
with Thanksgiving anxiety supposedly
with Thanksgiving anxiety supposedly here to take a little bit of a break
here to take a little bit of a break
here to take a little bit of a break from work and home and just having a
from work and home and just having a
from work and home and just having a hard time separating out from the office
hard time separating out from the office
hard time separating out from the office responsibilities
responsibilities
responsibilities all that so I’m just struggling with it
all that so I’m just struggling with it
all that so I’m just struggling with it so when we change our questions a few
so when we change our questions a few
so when we change our questions a few things happen one people start talking
things happen one people start talking
things happen one people start talking longer I actually run an experiment and
longer I actually run an experiment and
longer I actually run an experiment and I took a group of participants and I
I took a group of participants and I
I took a group of participants and I asked them either how are you doing or
asked them either how are you doing or
asked them either how are you doing or what is in your heart and what I found
what is in your heart and what I found
what is in your heart and what I found was that when I changed the question
was that when I changed the question
was that when I changed the question people spoke five times longer
people spoke five times longer
people spoke five times longer you might be thinking come on I don’t
you might be thinking come on I don’t
you might be thinking come on I don’t want to spend five times longer every
want to spend five times longer every
want to spend five times longer every time I want to ask somebody how are you
time I want to ask somebody how are you
time I want to ask somebody how are you doing right but what if once in a while
doing right but what if once in a while
doing right but what if once in a while you change your question and take a
you change your question and take a
you change your question and take a moment and look into their eyes another
moment and look into their eyes another
moment and look into their eyes another thing happens people open their hearts
thing happens people open their hearts
thing happens people open their hearts more emotions become available to us
more emotions become available to us
more emotions become available to us that lady whose husband had a good visit
that lady whose husband had a good visit
that lady whose husband had a good visit to the hospital we see so much love
to the hospital we see so much love
to the hospital we see so much love their years of love and relief and with
their years of love and relief and with
their years of love and relief and with a college student who side first and
a college student who side first and
a college student who side first and talked about missing his family we all
talked about missing his family we all
talked about missing his family we all know what it means to long for home it
know what it means to long for home it
know what it means to long for home it touched me differently having been away
touched me differently having been away
touched me differently having been away from home for 14 years you might also be
from home for 14 years you might also be
from home for 14 years you might also be thinking no this is all nice but I am
thinking no this is all nice but I am
thinking no this is all nice but I am not the type of person to ask these
not the type of person to ask these
not the type of person to ask these questions that’s not me
questions that’s not me
questions that’s not me I would feel ridiculous asking these
I would feel ridiculous asking these
I would feel ridiculous asking these actually it will put me in awkward
actually it will put me in awkward
actually it will put me in awkward situations with people we might be
situations with people we might be
situations with people we might be thinking well she asked and she got
thinking well she asked and she got
thinking well she asked and she got these answers but what if I asked and
these answers but what if I asked and
these answers but what if I asked and there is this awkward silence and it’s
there is this awkward silence and it’s
there is this awkward silence and it’s just we look at in each other and we’ll
just we look at in each other and we’ll
just we look at in each other and we’ll get alienated I want to tell you about a
get alienated I want to tell you about a
get alienated I want to tell you about a man who is to work at a hospital and he
man who is to work at a hospital and he
man who is to work at a hospital and he used to conduct these intake
used to conduct these intake
used to conduct these intake questionnaires these are the questions
questionnaires these are the questions
questionnaires these are the questions that you get asked when you are admitted
that you get asked when you are admitted
that you get asked when you are admitted to a hospital they may they might ask
to a hospital they may they might ask
to a hospital they may they might ask you things like do you smoke do you
you things like do you smoke do you
you things like do you smoke do you drink and with what frequency if you do
drink and with what frequency if you do
drink and with what frequency if you do what is your family medical history then
what is your family medical history then
what is your family medical history then there are other questions that he asked
there are other questions that he asked
there are other questions that he asked mental health rate with questions such
mental health rate with questions such
mental health rate with questions such as do you hear voices coming from your
as do you hear voices coming from your
as do you hear voices coming from your TV when it’s off
so he went to his supervisor and said
so he went to his supervisor and said it’s all great but I cannot ask these
it’s all great but I cannot ask these
it’s all great but I cannot ask these questions anymore I feel so
questions anymore I feel so
questions anymore I feel so uncomfortable and then here’s what she
uncomfortable and then here’s what she
uncomfortable and then here’s what she said she said keep on asking these
said she said keep on asking these
said she said keep on asking these questions those who don’t hear voices
questions those who don’t hear voices
questions those who don’t hear voices will say no and they will move on but
will say no and they will move on but
will say no and they will move on but those who do might say something like
those who do might say something like
those who do might say something like it’s not my TV but you should see my
it’s not my TV but you should see my
it’s not my TV but you should see my toaster my toaster talks so loud at
toaster my toaster talks so loud at
toaster my toaster talks so loud at night and I can’t sleep and they will
night and I can’t sleep and they will
night and I can’t sleep and they will also be glad that you asks relieved
also be glad that you asks relieved
also be glad that you asks relieved so perhaps changing our questions are
so perhaps changing our questions are
so perhaps changing our questions are not only for us it’s for people around
not only for us it’s for people around
not only for us it’s for people around us maybe perhaps by changing our
us maybe perhaps by changing our
us maybe perhaps by changing our question it’s like we’re giving them a
question it’s like we’re giving them a
question it’s like we’re giving them a hand and for people to hold on so we can
hand and for people to hold on so we can
hand and for people to hold on so we can pull them out of those dark rooms open
pull them out of those dark rooms open
pull them out of those dark rooms open those curtains there’s another question
those curtains there’s another question
those curtains there’s another question we ask very often
we ask very often
we ask very often perhaps as often and that is what do you
perhaps as often and that is what do you
perhaps as often and that is what do you do here’s what happens when we ask that
do here’s what happens when we ask that
do here’s what happens when we ask that question computer engineering unemployed
question computer engineering unemployed
question computer engineering unemployed I teach yoga I said it UVA I’m an HR
I teach yoga I said it UVA I’m an HR
I teach yoga I said it UVA I’m an HR consultant I cook and I been in the
consultant I cook and I been in the
consultant I cook and I been in the restaurant industry for 40 years work at
restaurant industry for 40 years work at
restaurant industry for 40 years work at Burger King for nine years clean up and
Burger King for nine years clean up and
Burger King for nine years clean up and whatever washing dishes
whatever washing dishes
whatever washing dishes I’m retired for about 20 years now den
I’m retired for about 20 years now den
I’m retired for about 20 years now den mother at a creative agency a real
mother at a creative agency a real
mother at a creative agency a real estate investment boom boom boom jobs
estate investment boom boom boom jobs
estate investment boom boom boom jobs when people talk about their jobs we put
when people talk about their jobs we put
when people talk about their jobs we put them in boxes here’s a box of a teacher
them in boxes here’s a box of a teacher
them in boxes here’s a box of a teacher for you here’s one of a student here’s
for you here’s one of a student here’s
for you here’s one of a student here’s one of my parents people start wearing
one of my parents people start wearing
one of my parents people start wearing that persona not only with you but with
that persona not only with you but with
that persona not only with you but with everybody else that they meet and they
everybody else that they meet and they
everybody else that they meet and they also start talking about only things
also start talking about only things
also start talking about only things that fit into that persona they stop
that fit into that persona they stop
that fit into that persona they stop talking about anything else that doesn’t
talking about anything else that doesn’t
talking about anything else that doesn’t fit think about it what box are you
fit think about it what box are you
fit think about it what box are you being put into every day and when you
being put into every day and when you
being put into every day and when you and I are in our individual boxes we
and I are in our individual boxes we
and I are in our individual boxes we forget to talk about anything else that
forget to talk about anything else that
forget to talk about anything else that doesn’t fit our curiosities about each
doesn’t fit our curiosities about each
doesn’t fit our curiosities about each other’s lives slowly withers our
other’s lives slowly withers our
other’s lives slowly withers our imaginations die our our conversations
imaginations die our our conversations
imaginations die our our conversations find a box of their own and every time
find a box of their own and every time
find a box of their own and every time we speak we pull out an easy comers
we speak we pull out an easy comers
we speak we pull out an easy comers Familia went out of that box you know
Familia went out of that box you know
Familia went out of that box you know what I think I know what you will say
what I think I know what you will say
what I think I know what you will say there’s nothing new there there’s a
there’s nothing new there there’s a
there’s nothing new there there’s a question I’d like to ask instead and
question I’d like to ask instead and
question I’d like to ask instead and that is what gets you up in the morning
that is what gets you up in the morning
that is what gets you up in the morning here’s what happens when we ask people
here’s what happens when we ask people
here’s what happens when we ask people that when I wake up in the morning the
that when I wake up in the morning the
that when I wake up in the morning the first thing I do is offer my attention
first thing I do is offer my attention
first thing I do is offer my attention to the world and then from there I go
to the world and then from there I go
to the world and then from there I go into getting ready for the day
into getting ready for the day
into getting ready for the day and if that includes coming to this
and if that includes coming to this
and if that includes coming to this store and doing the best job I can we
store and doing the best job I can we
store and doing the best job I can we have a routine we get up we have coffee
have a routine we get up we have coffee
have a routine we get up we have coffee together we have a little prayer we
together we have a little prayer we
together we have a little prayer we exercise together and then we take walks
exercise together and then we take walks
exercise together and then we take walks together there’s a part of it the will
together there’s a part of it the will
together there’s a part of it the will to see my friends and hang out with them
to see my friends and hang out with them
to see my friends and hang out with them at college the good log say you wake up
at college the good log say you wake up
at college the good log say you wake up in the morning yeah night bus no no you
in the morning yeah night bus no no you
in the morning yeah night bus no no you know you think people are equal I am
know you think people are equal I am
know you think people are equal I am insane her mom so I volunteer a lot and
insane her mom so I volunteer a lot and
insane her mom so I volunteer a lot and I just look forward to helping people
I just look forward to helping people
I just look forward to helping people throughout the day and and making a
throughout the day and and making a
throughout the day and and making a difference actually life to be alive
difference actually life to be alive
difference actually life to be alive gets me up it’s a good thing it’s a good
gets me up it’s a good thing it’s a good
gets me up it’s a good thing it’s a good thing to experience every day they are
thing to experience every day they are
thing to experience every day they are given life things that make us feel
given life things that make us feel
given life things that make us feel alive sometimes there are jobs and
alive sometimes there are jobs and
alive sometimes there are jobs and sometimes there are different things but
sometimes there are different things but
sometimes there are different things but when I was talking to people I felt that
when I was talking to people I felt that
when I was talking to people I felt that when I changed a question there was an
when I changed a question there was an
when I changed a question there was an energy that came out that propelled
energy that came out that propelled
energy that came out that propelled people into the day and not only that
people into the day and not only that
people into the day and not only that they stopped talking about themselves
they stopped talking about themselves
they stopped talking about themselves it’s no longer about me me what can I do
it’s no longer about me me what can I do
it’s no longer about me me what can I do for myself and people started talking
for myself and people started talking
for myself and people started talking about others their sons and daughters
about others their sons and daughters
about others their sons and daughters their grandsons their strange strangers
their grandsons their strange strangers
their grandsons their strange strangers their partners it propelled them and
their partners it propelled them and
their partners it propelled them and they looked away from their darkness
they looked away from their darkness
they looked away from their darkness what they hid there these are the
what they hid there these are the
what they hid there these are the questions that give us Liberty to be
questions that give us Liberty to be
questions that give us Liberty to be ourselves that free us to contradict
ourselves that free us to contradict
ourselves that free us to contradict ourselves to talk about things that
ourselves to talk about things that
ourselves to talk about things that don’t make any sense together these are
don’t make any sense together these are
don’t make any sense together these are the questions that tell us it’s okay to
the questions that tell us it’s okay to
the questions that tell us it’s okay to be vulnerable it’s okay to reach the
be vulnerable it’s okay to reach the
be vulnerable it’s okay to reach the peon into our darkness and bring it out
peon into our darkness and bring it out
peon into our darkness and bring it out to a light these questions tell we can
to a light these questions tell we can
to a light these questions tell we can we
we
we through these questions we can tell each
through these questions we can tell each
through these questions we can tell each other it’s okay bring your lonely and
other it’s okay bring your lonely and
other it’s okay bring your lonely and tired soul here
tired soul here
tired soul here I brought mine so you know in my heart
I brought mine so you know in my heart
I brought mine so you know in my heart right now it’s both some darkness and
right now it’s both some darkness and
right now it’s both some darkness and sadness something that I carried a bit
sadness something that I carried a bit
sadness something that I carried a bit of anxiety coming here I was looking
of anxiety coming here I was looking
of anxiety coming here I was looking forward to meeting you but I was also
forward to meeting you but I was also
forward to meeting you but I was also very anxious how would it go having dark
very anxious how would it go having dark
very anxious how would it go having dark days were hesitating but also now in my
days were hesitating but also now in my
days were hesitating but also now in my heart there’s hope there is hope that we
heart there’s hope there is hope that we
heart there’s hope there is hope that we can start changing our questions and we
can start changing our questions and we
can start changing our questions and we can ask something new my eight-year-old
can ask something new my eight-year-old
can ask something new my eight-year-old self didn’t know to ask another question
self didn’t know to ask another question
self didn’t know to ask another question she might have asked you know what’s on
she might have asked you know what’s on
she might have asked you know what’s on that curtain
that curtain
that curtain how can you see each other in such
how can you see each other in such
how can you see each other in such darkness but we can start today change
darkness but we can start today change
darkness but we can start today change our questions so that we can save people
our questions so that we can save people
our questions so that we can save people out of those dark rooms and I want to
out of those dark rooms and I want to
out of those dark rooms and I want to leave you with two questions one what
leave you with two questions one what
leave you with two questions one what gets you up in the morning ma’am what
gets you up in the morning ma’am what
gets you up in the morning ma’am what gets you up in the morning sorry what
gets you up in the morning sorry what
gets you up in the morning sorry what gets you up in the morning how about you
gets you up in the morning how about you
gets you up in the morning how about you what gets you up in the morning my
what gets you up in the morning my
what gets you up in the morning my second question is what is in your heart
thank you so I can’t let her go quite
thank you so I can’t let her go quite yet I know we’re running late but I have
yet I know we’re running late but I have
yet I know we’re running late but I have one more question
one more question
one more question help us think about what we can do now
help us think about what we can do now
help us think about what we can do now what kinds of questions can we ask each
what kinds of questions can we ask each
what kinds of questions can we ask each other to help us make the connections
other to help us make the connections
other to help us make the connections that we need to make to help understand
that we need to make to help understand
that we need to make to help understand this crazy world we’re in right now I
this crazy world we’re in right now I
this crazy world we’re in right now I think we can still ask what is in your
think we can still ask what is in your
think we can still ask what is in your heart
heart
heart that’s us that’s a both a risky and a
that’s us that’s a both a risky and a
that’s us that’s a both a risky and a safe question we can ask it more
safe question we can ask it more
safe question we can ask it more specifically what is in your heart about
specifically what is in your heart about
specifically what is in your heart about your job mm-hmm what is in your heart
your job mm-hmm what is in your heart
your job mm-hmm what is in your heart about this election what is in your
about this election what is in your
about this election what is in your heart today another thing that I try to
heart today another thing that I try to
heart today another thing that I try to do in my life is provide other
do in my life is provide other
do in my life is provide other to people for example I might ask you
to people for example I might ask you
to people for example I might ask you Lisa what color would represent how you
Lisa what color would represent how you
Lisa what color would represent how you feel today so you don’t have to tell me
feel today so you don’t have to tell me
feel today so you don’t have to tell me any emotions any adjectives you can tell
any emotions any adjectives you can tell
any emotions any adjectives you can tell me let’s say you feel like green and
me let’s say you feel like green and
me let’s say you feel like green and then your green is different from me so
then your green is different from me so
then your green is different from me so I can ask you what this green means to
I can ask you what this green means to
I can ask you what this green means to you and then the last thing is something
you and then the last thing is something
you and then the last thing is something I didn’t say but as a tip is that
I didn’t say but as a tip is that
I didn’t say but as a tip is that vulnerability in mighting that starts
vulnerability in mighting that starts
vulnerability in mighting that starts with vulnerability so are you willing to
with vulnerability so are you willing to
with vulnerability so are you willing to answer this question yourself and maybe
answer this question yourself and maybe
answer this question yourself and maybe sometimes it might take you revealing
sometimes it might take you revealing
sometimes it might take you revealing something about yourself first but I
something about yourself first but I
something about yourself first but I assure you it’s worth taking that risk
assure you it’s worth taking that risk
assure you it’s worth taking that risk thank you
thank you
thank you [Applause]
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