how’d it right back when you have to say no so recently made a video called right
no so recently made a video called right
no so recently made a video called right back where i encouraged people to on
back where i encouraged people to on
back where i encouraged people to on their social media channels and people
their social media channels and people
their social media channels and people write to you to write back we’re just
write to you to write back we’re just
write to you to write back we’re just this kind of common decency and one of
this kind of common decency and one of
this kind of common decency and one of my youtube viewers love you guys sharing
my youtube viewers love you guys sharing
my youtube viewers love you guys sharing wrote in to say good video what is your
wrote in to say good video what is your
wrote in to say good video what is your advice to running back when you have to
advice to running back when you have to
advice to running back when you have to say no or that you don’t like something
say no or that you don’t like something
say no or that you don’t like something I find it easier to respond when it’s a
I find it easier to respond when it’s a
I find it easier to respond when it’s a nice thing by harder when it’s not how
nice thing by harder when it’s not how
nice thing by harder when it’s not how can I stay positive in these responses
can I stay positive in these responses
can I stay positive in these responses without seeming insincere thanks again
without seeming insincere thanks again
without seeming insincere thanks again love these videos sharing so share this
love these videos sharing so share this
love these videos sharing so share this a great question and I tend to lump
a great question and I tend to lump
a great question and I tend to lump these kind of incoming communications in
these kind of incoming communications in
these kind of incoming communications in the four categories okay the first one
the four categories okay the first one
the four categories okay the first one is your fans and these are the these are
is your fans and these are the these are
is your fans and these are the these are the ones that you love responding to
the ones that you love responding to
the ones that you love responding to these are the the positive comments is
these are the the positive comments is
these are the the positive comments is there what motivates me every day when I
there what motivates me every day when I
there what motivates me every day when I wake up and turn my computer and I’m
wake up and turn my computer and I’m
wake up and turn my computer and I’m eating my lentils for breakfast and I
eating my lentils for breakfast and I
eating my lentils for breakfast and I see your comments coming in that the
see your comments coming in that the
see your comments coming in that the fans are supporting you and and just
fans are supporting you and and just
fans are supporting you and and just doing that just responding to the
doing that just responding to the
doing that just responding to the positive ones already puts you ahead of
positive ones already puts you ahead of
positive ones already puts you ahead of most people which is shocking it blows
most people which is shocking it blows
most people which is shocking it blows my mind it’s shocking but just doing
my mind it’s shocking but just doing
my mind it’s shocking but just doing that I can’t tell how many people I’ve
that I can’t tell how many people I’ve
that I can’t tell how many people I’ve written to on Twitter or commented on
written to on Twitter or commented on
written to on Twitter or commented on YouTube video and say just saying hey
YouTube video and say just saying hey
YouTube video and say just saying hey great stuff congratulations you know
great stuff congratulations you know
great stuff congratulations you know love your book love your video great
love your book love your video great
love your book love your video great points whatever and and you hear nothing
points whatever and and you hear nothing
points whatever and and you hear nothing back I get not nothing I don’t know I’m
back I get not nothing I don’t know I’m
back I get not nothing I don’t know I’m used to responding to people and just
used to responding to people and just
used to responding to people and just doing that seems like a basic thing for
doing that seems like a basic thing for
doing that seems like a basic thing for me anyway respond to your fans okay
me anyway respond to your fans okay
me anyway respond to your fans okay number one number two is going to be
number one number two is going to be
number one number two is going to be your your haters the little man the
your your haters the little man the
your your haters the little man the people who who nitpick at the stuff
people who who nitpick at the stuff
people who who nitpick at the stuff you’re saying who find faults with
you’re saying who find faults with
you’re saying who find faults with everything we’re trying to poke holes in
everything we’re trying to poke holes in
everything we’re trying to poke holes in your argument who just hate instead of
your argument who just hate instead of
your argument who just hate instead of making something great and in doing
making something great and in doing
making something great and in doing something good with their lives they
something good with their lives they
something good with their lives they focus on negativity and tearing other
focus on negativity and tearing other
focus on negativity and tearing other people down and unfortunately there’s a
people down and unfortunately there’s a
people down and unfortunately there’s a lot of these people in the world and
lot of these people in the world and
lot of these people in the world and that’s up to you now did you respond
that’s up to you now did you respond
that’s up to you now did you respond they’re not up to you you know typically
they’re not up to you you know typically
they’re not up to you you know typically what I’ll do is I’ll tender respond
what I’ll do is I’ll tender respond
what I’ll do is I’ll tender respond and I’ll try to turn them around and
and I’ll try to turn them around and
and I’ll try to turn them around and sometimes it happens and sometimes it
sometimes it happens and sometimes it
sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t and if I’m in the emails a
doesn’t and if I’m in the emails a
doesn’t and if I’m in the emails a couple emails deepen and they’re not
couple emails deepen and they’re not
couple emails deepen and they’re not changing and you’re not understanding
changing and you’re not understanding
changing and you’re not understanding then I’ll let it drop but i’ll usually
then I’ll let it drop but i’ll usually
then I’ll let it drop but i’ll usually respond a couple times just to try to
respond a couple times just to try to
respond a couple times just to try to bring them back you know don’t be so
bring them back you know don’t be so
bring them back you know don’t be so negative man like don’t focus so much on
negative man like don’t focus so much on
negative man like don’t focus so much on the specific words we focus on the idea
the specific words we focus on the idea
the specific words we focus on the idea and do something positive with your life
and do something positive with your life
and do something positive with your life a lot of times it’s just helping them
a lot of times it’s just helping them
a lot of times it’s just helping them see that they have potential you know
see that they have potential you know
see that they have potential you know they could do something great and and
they could do something great and and
they could do something great and and nobody has ever believed in them
nobody has ever believed in them
nobody has ever believed in them probably in their whole life and so
probably in their whole life and so
probably in their whole life and so they’re so negative but it’s optional
they’re so negative but it’s optional
they’re so negative but it’s optional you know what you don’t be surrounded by
you know what you don’t be surrounded by
you know what you don’t be surrounded by negative people don’t respond the third
negative people don’t respond the third
negative people don’t respond the third group are the spammers spammers and I
group are the spammers spammers and I
group are the spammers spammers and I get so many emails that are you know
get so many emails that are you know
get so many emails that are you know dear Michael love your website we have a
dear Michael love your website we have a
dear Michael love your website we have a great promotional offer for you you can
great promotional offer for you you can
great promotional offer for you you can sell your audience our great pet food
sell your audience our great pet food
sell your audience our great pet food it’s like are you kidding me really like
it’s like are you kidding me really like
it’s like are you kidding me really like did you even look at my website you even
did you even look at my website you even
did you even look at my website you even know my name do you look at who I serve
know my name do you look at who I serve
know my name do you look at who I serve are you kidding me do a little bit of
are you kidding me do a little bit of
are you kidding me do a little bit of research spammers whatever that gets
research spammers whatever that gets
research spammers whatever that gets deleted that’s not going to get a
deleted that’s not going to get a
deleted that’s not going to get a response and then the fourth are the
response and then the fourth are the
response and then the fourth are the group of people who you have to let down
group of people who you have to let down
group of people who you have to let down you know the ones you say no too often
you know the ones you say no too often
you know the ones you say no too often I’ll get people right into me and you
I’ll get people right into me and you
I’ll get people right into me and you know I value my time okay I have a lot
know I value my time okay I have a lot
know I value my time okay I have a lot of stuff on the go a lot of projects i’m
of stuff on the go a lot of projects i’m
of stuff on the go a lot of projects i’m working on tons of stuff and I value my
working on tons of stuff and I value my
working on tons of stuff and I value my time and I can’t say yes to everybody
time and I can’t say yes to everybody
time and I can’t say yes to everybody right I can’t say yes to everybody but I
right I can’t say yes to everybody but I
right I can’t say yes to everybody but I don’t want to just ignore people and so
don’t want to just ignore people and so
don’t want to just ignore people and so people right into me and they want me to
people right into me and they want me to
people right into me and they want me to review their book or they want me to
review their book or they want me to
review their book or they want me to speak at an event or they want me to
speak at an event or they want me to
speak at an event or they want me to I’ll get a lot people say hey can you
I’ll get a lot people say hey can you
I’ll get a lot people say hey can you can you call me can we have an hour
can you call me can we have an hour
can you call me can we have an hour phone call to talk about something like
phone call to talk about something like
phone call to talk about something like I don’t I I would love to but I don’t
I don’t I I would love to but I don’t
I don’t I I would love to but I don’t have that time I can’t do that right
have that time I can’t do that right
have that time I can’t do that right otherwise I’d just be bombarded as too
otherwise I’d just be bombarded as too
otherwise I’d just be bombarded as too much and so you can think about but what
much and so you can think about but what
much and so you can think about but what I’ll do is I’ll think about an
I’ll do is I’ll think about an
I’ll do is I’ll think about an alternative right if somebody wants me
alternative right if somebody wants me
alternative right if somebody wants me to call them say well I can make a video
to call them say well I can make a video
to call them say well I can make a video response for you if you have a specific
response for you if you have a specific
response for you if you have a specific question and let them know I don’t have
question and let them know I don’t have
question and let them know I don’t have time to call everybody individually
time to call everybody individually
time to call everybody individually or if they want me to review their book
or if they want me to review their book
or if they want me to review their book and I just don’t have time for it i’ll
and I just don’t have time for it i’ll
and I just don’t have time for it i’ll say you know what I love to I appreciate
say you know what I love to I appreciate
say you know what I love to I appreciate it thank you for thinking of me but I
it thank you for thinking of me but I
it thank you for thinking of me but I just have too much on my plate right now
just have too much on my plate right now
just have too much on my plate right now good luck with the project so I’m being
good luck with the project so I’m being
good luck with the project so I’m being honest you know like I want their thing
honest you know like I want their thing
honest you know like I want their thing to succeed I just don’t have the time
to succeed I just don’t have the time
to succeed I just don’t have the time right or don’t have the interest it’s
right or don’t have the interest it’s
right or don’t have the interest it’s not a fit for what I’m doing right now
not a fit for what I’m doing right now
not a fit for what I’m doing right now and so if you are you know you’re you’re
and so if you are you know you’re you’re
and so if you are you know you’re you’re still positive and that you appreciate
still positive and that you appreciate
still positive and that you appreciate them for reaching out to you you’re
them for reaching out to you you’re
them for reaching out to you you’re still positive and that you’re wishing
still positive and that you’re wishing
still positive and that you’re wishing them good luck with whatever they’re
them good luck with whatever they’re
them good luck with whatever they’re trying to do you know hopefully they’re
trying to do you know hopefully they’re
trying to do you know hopefully they’re doing something important and give them
doing something important and give them
doing something important and give them the best wishes but you let them know
the best wishes but you let them know
the best wishes but you let them know that you can’t help out right now you
that you can’t help out right now you
that you can’t help out right now you know you don’t have to tack them you
know you don’t have to tack them you
know you don’t have to tack them you have to say hey that book that’s that’s
have to say hey that book that’s that’s
have to say hey that book that’s that’s a that’s a crappy idea I don’t want any
a that’s a crappy idea I don’t want any
a that’s a crappy idea I don’t want any part of it say thank you for thinking of
part of it say thank you for thinking of
part of it say thank you for thinking of me I’ve got just way too much on the go
me I’ve got just way too much on the go
me I’ve got just way too much on the go right now good luck with the book right
right now good luck with the book right
right now good luck with the book right that’s a lot nicer more positive vibes
that’s a lot nicer more positive vibes
that’s a lot nicer more positive vibes being sent out than having to slam
being sent out than having to slam
being sent out than having to slam somebody so those are the four types of
somebody so those are the four types of
somebody so those are the four types of people who write into me and how I
people who write into me and how I
people who write into me and how I respond and hopefully that helps you
respond and hopefully that helps you
respond and hopefully that helps you believe for those of you watching like
believe for those of you watching like
believe for those of you watching like the video let me know how you deal with
the video let me know how you deal with
the video let me know how you deal with these people leave a comment below if
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