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good afternoon
It’s a pleasure to be here sharing
with you this moment has been very
well what we have seen of magic what
I’m going to tell is not magic
I’m not a magician, as Maria said
I am a nurse I work daily
with people who are sick with
the people who are in situation
end of his life and with the people who
they are taking care of these patients
well I wanted to tell you about those who
are here present that lift the
hand what have never been wrong or
little arms well from small
we have been sick we have had
disease processes who has been
behind the care that has given us
been behaving giving love and giving
validity
the mother a mother figure
positive the difference to this image
this drawing tells me a partner when
I said I want to convey an image of
tree that has a female figure that
branch
as you can see it will not look good but they are
faces expression of emotions because
daily I find myself at work
with women carers in this
situation
in this situation where the emotions
they are close to the surface and where they are
since all his life caring for children
to parents to husbands to husbands
brothers and uncles nephews all over the world
that cares for her that takes care of her
it’s sad it ‘s sad but the picture is not
It can be more devastating
right now we are here in
Andalusia is estimated that there are some
160,000 caregiver of them 70
nor are they big dependents that
tickets are trapped
however everyone asks for help
but that helps them come
fixed humans we have two
key moments in our life our
birth and our death when
we are born we need someone who
take care
if he does not care, nobody dies the human being
is the most fragile being that we have
look at how much until you do not
we reach certain ages not
We are independent one chick leaves
egg and it is automatically
Independent
nevertheless the human being needs
very much care not only the
initial stages of your life but
also in the final stages in the
key moments of our life of
our birth but also our
death when we are born we are surrounded
of people who do not want to give us
Honey, they give us hugs kisses but
however when we die
many people are alone or with their
caregiver because throughout life
in the different stages
the human being is building, let’s go
building the end that we’re going to have
throughout our life is going
building that end with our
decisions and a hundred years
nobody of those who are here present
we will be alive if we want or
simply in that cloud that means
Internet looks at people 100 years old
of this conference there is also where
we want but physically we will stop
exist
look at every sick person with a
carer is given this binomial the person
caregiver and patient when
that we diagnose the disease
we are at kilometer zero like me
just call him because from there
begins a whole process in which in the
initial phase should promote the
autonomy of the patient and caregiver to
go together as one goes
disease whatever it is
let’s see how the patient is each
reduced in his decisions
and it is the caregiver who has
to go making decisions decisions that
affect the patient and decisions that
you can make a mistake but nobody from the
family supports you
only the main caretaker man
how unfair that unfair
called from here to all men to
that also participate in the care
of the oldest of the children of the
little ones if they really want to that
Caregiver does not say good
stay with your mother now with my father
and I’m not going to see the soccer that
greater cruelty and injustice more
great I see it daily I can
remove caregivers
with these branches of emotions that has
why the people who have delivered
to take care of other people
67 percent set that figure so
terrible
77% of the caregiver die
before the patient himself is English and what
we have to take action on the matter
all involved not only us
as health professionals
I’m here to say it, you have to
involve all institutions
policies colleges and families in
general agreement
look at the four principles of
bioethics we come to say the first
the nonmaleficence I am in a
health institution I can not make you
more harm to that patient physical damage
or psychological or moral
not listening to a patient or a
I’m already marking some caregiver
way since I do not care about your
problem is a damage we can not fall into
The error of non-maleficence must
avoid doing more damage in an environment of
justice of our frame of reference
by definition, health systems
public
all are deficit however they come
to ask us to give me give me give me give me and in that
framework of not doing more damage and of
Justice
we will not find face to face a
professional and a user where the
professional or in charity the
maximum benefit of their
knowledge at the service of a person
that has autonomy capacity for
decide until a few years ago there was that
do what we said not sanitary
what the doctor said was sacred today
day we can chip for users
I want this treatment or I do not want it
because I have a right that protects me
by kings autonomy is to decide if
I want or do not want one or the other
treatment even a probe in the
final phase of my life or if I want me to
fill up because country in the
hospitals we are very aggressive
Yes, of course, when you have to save one
life we fill the body with cables
holes drilled everywhere
because we are going to save life but
ladies and gentlemen when we are at
end of life exercising has and
we want from holes a human body
possibly that person did not want that
that many holes were made
we are doing that is why we have the
ethical principles to which
we have to close, I have a
propitious
something that called the sanitary friendship the
therapeutic trust and I from the
first moment that I have a family and
a patient
he won me his therapeutic trust
because I wanted to put all my service
knowledge and all my wisdom for
the best to do that family spent on
the path of health friendship that
health goal that involves trying
raise awareness and intimacy
treatment weakness because we have to see
humans like the bable look
not just a set of organs that
make it a human body to be
human in a biography throughout
his life as the circle of life that
we have seen and in this one that we know
what are its values that what
wants that person or what does not
he wants that person well for that we have
the will is anticipated a document
that now that we are lucid
conscious oriented we must of
face what I want
when you in the final moments of my
life is encouraged to any process of
irreversible disease that I want that
do with me where I want to die where
I want to be
I want you to take care of me it ‘s important that
become aware of this than
otherwise we are delegating all the
responsibility
carer and cricket of a
caregiver who takes years
caring for a patient with Alzheimer’s
have never talked about what it is that
wants the patient when he can no longer
make decisions when you can no longer
eat until a probe so that
have a hole you’ll want not
you speak is afraid is a taboo
because in this society he only blames
to life there is no talk of death and
we need to talk about the death that
let’s overcome this process because all the
that we are born
someday we will have god to life and
it depends on us and nothing more than
US
let’s say how we want to die for
that we have the anticipated vital will
by which is saying what
wants and what does not want what are
your values I pass my vital values the
ability to communicate in the ability
to be independent of making decisions
by myself by myself when they go to
do a test asking for the
consent but what happens when the
person can no longer take those
decisions title has left written the
professionals let’s look at what are
your decisions when you can not
making the decision is because you are in
a final situation in life
doing it is to relieve the care to the
caregiver because the caregiver is
quiet of what he is doing for
that I say to take care with quality and care
with quality is not caring with fear
caring with fear is as dangerous as
take a car without a driving license and
without knowing who is coordinating
crash you take care of a person who does not
You know how to care is
sentenced the patient and the family to
that they also have their accident and what
we see daily caregiver who do not know
take care of that, we teach them about
hospital from health centers
we teach them how to take care
But quality has to be careful
herself so that they are not part of
that terrible statistic thinks 37% of
caregiver who die before the
caring person between her
my own mother who died watching over my
father who still lives
but he did not know how to take care of himself did not know how to take care
is the message that I want to tell the
Government caretaker governments are
seeing what you have family
you know they are taking care of that
You have to take care of her
so let’s do that will
anticipated because this tree that
represents that woman carer who
serves everyone at all stages of
Life since birth is growing
are developing a few years ago
I called the woman sam wheat because
I was in the middle of the children to whom
is educating and from his parents to whom
also the life expectancy has
increased but what is happening
we are checking how the population
it is also progressively
increasing the level of care and this
Caregiver also takes care of her work
serves the family has everything but nobody
attend to her
these women 40 percent 50%
they lose their jobs by dedicating themselves to
beware the sad is sad what is
happening and abc compared this society
it is arboricide that is giving forests
he connected what he is doing with the woman
today is very cruel and soon
let’s celebrate the day against
gender violence
and I say it’s not latent violence the
that is being carried out daily
in a silent way against women
I find it very cruel and as a professional
sanitary in my duty making known to
society put in place mechanisms
to help this woman carer that
become aware of what is
happening because the very serious problem
when the woman herself does not know what
is happening and when he says it is what
that has touched me but that I cross the most
large family of seven members
five or six men
the smallest the woman has touched him and
the person is forced to do that
activity
caring for parents for example the
rest of the brothers in their lives
when the parents pass away they will have
50 or 60 years old and she is alone
no longer has friendships of the halves has
left losing he no longer has with whom
relate is a person who is sinking
in misery for doing one of the
slides that if in the end you have to
rescue that person because he has some
huge caregiving qualities and can
be useful for other people and the
professionals we must get involved and we
we imply and I as a professional
I am very involved in defending the
right that women have to
take care of yourself and men to demand that
also participate by god do not leave
that our women are even more
crushed pretty will crush the
today’s society with a language
sexist but also with behavior
sexist when he imposes on the woman
have to take care of the entire population
that has ahead
but my god who is taking care of her
he is taking care of me so silent
they come with those faces of emotions where
Hardly have moments of joy
however you have to rescue those
moments because in the activity
permanent daily caregiver constant
It must have a sense of humor sense
of love for that person when
come the end of your life have the
calm conscience that is
doing the right thing at every moment and
it is necessary that we take letters in the
matter because they are taking care of all their
life since society is born them
instill from tiny that you have to
take care as only a toy that is
The girl is destined
now that Christmas cart comes
stroller and even inculcating and
child is given other objects
because we do not deliver to the
child a doll to take care of a grandpa
to care and to attend because he
we teach this society that we have to
take care of our elders because the
society that forgets its elders
is losing its roots it forgets
its roots and a society that is lost
in the roots is condemned to
disappear a society that cares for its
greater
it is a society that is perpetuated and if
we have the gift of transmitting life to
our future generations
We have the duty and the obligation to
look after
our women who have given us the
life all here present we come
of a woman
we can not forget our
women carers
currently I tell you about 160,000 in
Andalusia
we had the statistics we’re going to
bring your hands to your head but it’s
terrible because it is a closed world
silent where right now so
silent are taking care of their patient
giving him food by a probe
mobilizing it with pains with a
quality of the lousy because you’re
people come to the consultation with
generalized pains will not have
pain headache particular back
of repressive hip waist clear yes
it does not help anyone if we have not been
taught to care please let
men also participate the
care
let’s not fall into the error of saying you
you are the girl has touched it is already good
it’s good it’s terrible that
generations younger than mine
have put that chip said my god
what society are we building
when young people would have to
participate in the care are removed
It’s not like the girl but hear
say that she is the girl
if you have part of responsibility
the care of his father his mother and his
brother
how long will this last?
I therefore I invite you to reflect
and I think my time is running out and
be all this a tribute to these
women caregivers and especially to me
mother
many thanks
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